Hmm, I honestly don't like to think of things as deal-breakers, but there obviously are things I don't like. Some of the things I really dislike in someone are:
• Arrogance: I really don't like people who think the world of themselves. Confidence is good, but no one is perfect, so don't act like it. • A negative attitude: I have a pretty positive attitude and I am really easily influenced by other people. Someone who thinks negatively most of the time will not make me happy • Disliking being affectionate: I'm a really touchy, cuddly person. I really really need my daily love in the form of hugs and other forms of touching. It would be hard for me being with someone who isn't that into physical contact. •Thinking of women as less than men: this is actually a big one for me. I don't see myself as feminist, but I get really angry when men make stupid comments about women. I also strongly disagree with gender roles, so if those are important to you, it will probably not work out • People who drink excessively or smoke (at all): I think smoking is gross and I rather not ruin my lungs or see someone elso do it to themselves. I do drink occasionally, but drinking a lot is bad for your health (and I just find it unappealing)
1. Being too clingy that's my number one pet peeve I get hounded and where are yous just because I chatted to someone for 20mins after work like geeze 2. Being able to take care of himself, as in do his own washing up, his own laundry etc I'm not his mum 3. Be polite to people, I would go to burger King/ McDonald's to see if he would pick the tray up his self or leave it for staff to do. I've never done the latter in my life, even at a restaurant I'd stack all the plates and glasses to make it easier for staff. 4. Be willing to meet me in the middle, whether its meeting up, chores, visiting relatives
Well all of my tables plates and glasses, just like if I was at a club/pub I pretty much always leave the glass on the bar rather than a random table, it actually annoyed my friends at the time, as they told me it's their job to collect glasses off of table, whereas I think it's busy enough and they have to deal with people who are ass holes at times so why not make life easier
1. Smoking, drinking, or the use of drugs. 2. Any nagging, controlling, or abusive behaviour, or cursing. 3. Any homosexual or criminal friends or close associates. 4. Not being a natural born and fully heterosexual adult female. 5. Tattoos and body piercings. 6. Thongs or any such. 7. Irreconcilable differences: religious beliefs, feminism, racism, or supporting abortion. 8. Keeping secrets from me. 9. Having someone else or not completely over the ex. 10. Anal, oral, or period sex. 11. Large or overweight; or too short. 12. High body count, high maintenance, or gold-digger.
Yeah I don't really see the problem. When someone is very athletic, all I see is, they're healthy, committed to their sport, hard working and dedicated, extremely attractive qualities if you ask me.
- Feminist (manhater, dumb, paranoid, evil, etc). - Political extremist (far right or especially far left). - Masculine appearance. - Male/born a man/trans. - Not heterosexual/straight (I don't have any problem with gays and lesbians, but I don't want to date anyone who is). - Not monogamous. - Dumb/stupid, but also really stubborn and unwilling to correct this. - Into children/minors. - Lies about sexual assault/misconduct. - Rude/disrespectful. - Shallow/superficial. - Poor hygiene.
Chewing with the mouth open, talking with a wad of food in the mouth and most importantly snorting snot up ones nose and making an obvious swallow instead of excusing yourself to go blow your nose. Other than that I am pretty tolerant.
there are many, both physical and mental. some are:
being obese
the big woman is my mother this is a lot of why i have issues about the weight of anyone i date.
being an alcoholic (grew up around way too many of these)
being too mentally deficient to spell their own name
there are more but gonna stop here
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My dealbreakers are lying in pictures, I. e having skinny pics then I meet her and she’s super fat, has kids. Never dated, I take care of myself and it’s not my job to be a father to someone else’s kids when the real father should be doing that and not separated. Women who won’t sign a prenup even if I’ve dated for more than 4 years is another deal breaker
That might start getting harder since the population of the US Christian's is rapidly falling though 65% of all US adults is nothing to scoff at. But when it was 85%in 1990 and then 78% in 2012, it paints a picture. But you do you.
If she ever chaet If she make me whait to long If she lie Not finish hightschool and no take bakelor ateist Low sex drive and no kiss If she don't want to talk about dreams and funny ideas Olso if she is younger then me.
@janedoe377 there's a girl I know who always wanted to go out, use to lecture me on my job, because I would not do what she wanted, we are in a restaurant and she's talking real loud and people are looking at us as she's talking, she's like "so what" Im like I dont care if you want to be the center of attention but I dont want to.
For me, the dealbreakers are smoking, drinking too much (little bit is okay though), cheating, lying, indecisiveness in the relationship, disrespectful, unwilling to be open or work things out
