If my brother is dating a single mother and he doesn't have any kids, does that mean he is a desperate guy with no other options?

[Anonymous]

[Danny_dan92]

Personally I’ve met many women that are single mothers and many that don’t have kids.




Each have their own respective pros and cons.




That being said, single mom’s almost always prove to be more mature

[Zenpanda]

No
It means he is attracted to the woman and doesn't mind that a kid is part of the deal.
That's a green flag to me.

[justjenny97]

Yes, it does. If any man says otherwise he’s in the same boat..

[Asker]

Why does it mean that? What if he found a woman he liked and decided to date her regardless of her having kids?

[justjenny97]

Be real with yourself, everyone not only men, but everyone wants the best for themself, the fact that a man will settle for a woman with baggage, (yes another man’s children is baggage) kinda just shows his options are pretty limited, if you have access to women without children, chances are you’ll be seeking that out, but also, there’s nothing really wrong with him not having better options, who cares. In the end the lady got lucky and found someone dumb enough to accept her and her poor decisions, and your brother isn’t alone anymore, I see no issue here.

[Asker]

Just because she has 1 child she has baggage and is undesirable? That sounds ridiculous

[justjenny97]

Yes it’s baggage, just because your brother is undesirable and that triggers you somewhere deep down doesn’t change it.

[justjenny97]

No sane man with options who isn’t desperate will seek out used up women with another man’s child, if you don’t like the truth, and you want to argue it, what’s the point of asking the question. Do you wanna hear, “oh your brother is so desirable and great, no him dating a woman with children doesn’t mean those things!” Too bad, this is real life.

[Asker]

It doesn't trigger me at all. He is a guy in his 30s and a lot of women in that age group have a kid or more, so what's the problem?

[Asker]

In real life guys date single mothers all the time so clearly you spend too much time on the internet

[justjenny97]

No, you’re just offended and you’re trying to defend the fact that your brother has no options.

[justjenny97]

you literally posted a question and got the answer you didn’t want now you’re arguing it, I’ll revert back to my previous statement, that you asking this question was pointless, because you’re in denial and just want to bicker back and fourth your delusions, there’s also a lot of women WITHOUT children in their 30s, but they require desirable men women want, which is clearly not what your brother is, because he’s with a woman who was nearly split in half by another man’s child. Get over it.

[Berethor]

He desperate guy and/or big sucker, single moms are damaged goods, never first choice.

[LiamJHayden]

Not automatically.