Was this wrong of me?

[Anonymous]

So I am seeing a guy in work who I should not be with because its against the rules. I thought his friend had a feeling that we were together so I was messaging him and I asked if the friend was bringing me out. I said it to deflect. Was this wrong of me to do? I told the guy Im seeing about it and I told him that I just said it as deflection cause noone can know that me and this guy are seeing eachother and we thought his friend had a clue.

[SweetPi]

Not really wrong but probably less deflection more of a choice for him.

Like why would you ever just randomly message this guy? 🧐

[Twalli]

It's not wrong to say that to his friend, but it's wrong to violate workplace policy. If you feel that this relationship has promise, one of you needs to change your job.

[spartan55]

What do you mean 'bringing you out' so you were deflecting how?

[In_Trance]

Get back to work before you get fired. It's not a singles club

[Avicenna]

Yeah, you’re making it worse

[In_Trance]

You asked this twice

[Anonymous]

It’s ok