Never had a boyfriend? Thoughts?

[Iceaneyes]

What does a guy think if he knew you never had a boyfriend. And I’m in my 30s

[ohsheeT]

I wouldn't think anything
Except for if we started dating I would want to be just very very slow motion and very sensual and make it the best for you because I would want to do it again and again and again and the only way that's going to happen like that is to do it the right way but I wouldn't judge her look at you any different than any other woman I think it's a beautiful thing that you held up that long I had to explore and experience when I was 16 and a half and I got lucky that with the person that I did it with wanted to do it three more times because the fourth time I learned some value valuable things

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Entirely depends on the type of guys you will face.

Inexperience in your age range: There are general principles, culturally, the religious guys find virginity honourable, the others will find this weird. Personality wise, close-minded guys will reject you for that as it will be perceived as handicap, open-minded guys will try to understand why you're still new to this.

Strategically, if you could seriously inspect the personality and culture of the next guy you'll be interested in, that would help your situation tremendously, good luck !

[Simslover92]

I didn't have a boyfriend until age 31. It's totally fine. There are many reasons why women especially today don't start dating until later. That could be schooling. Strict upbringing. Focusing on career. Being raped or sexually assaulted in college (this happened to me).

The point is there are so many reasons.

[Iceaneyes]

Sorry to hear that

[Simslover92]

It's okay. Thank you.

[Nikki1989]

Female or male, it is a huge red flag.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would be intrigued, but I don't date women that young.

[Iceaneyes]

Intrigued how

[OlderAndWiser]

Obviously, there is a reason for your status which does not apply to many other women at your age. The reason may be something which reflects on morality, or on shyness and innocence, or something else. I would want to know more. . . if I was single and in your age range. However, I am married and far older than you.

[Iceaneyes]

Ok thanks.

[Avicenna]

I'd be surprised, but not bothered by that, depending on the reason why.

[exitseven]

E wryone has different life experiences. Yes, maybe you are a little behind the curve but don't make a big deal about it. Most people will not give it a se one thought.

[Iceaneyes]

Tbh I’m lonely. I’m probably lonelier than most people

[exitseven]

I get it. It is hard to make friends these days. Social media isxth3 problem. You can have a thousand Facebook friends but not know a single person you can discuss personal issues with

[MisterWack]

They won’t judge you if your heart is full of love, your soul is filled with honesty, and your body is grounded in reality & priorities are in order. Any man would be lucky to have you and keep you especially since you’ll make him feel like the luckiest man in the world.

[morganherrel]

It depends on your reasons for never having a boyfriend.

If you say that you wanted to save yourself for when you were truly ready—and given various life events, that time never arrived until now—then I think he would understand.

But if you truly endeavored to find a partner for the last 10-15 and never succeeded, even as a woman in the U. S.... then that's extremely hard to believe... and reflects very poorly on you if true.

[MackBoy]

I don't have a girlfriend physically except online because my family doesn't allow me to spend time outside till I complete my studies. Another thing I don't talk to girls much also because I am shy.

[noohair]

I don't look into my past, it is not healthy. I do the same thing with others.

[OddBeMe]

Well it’s not game over. But gotta turn that shit around. Whats stopped you?

[Danny_dan92]

All good. Dating is shit these days tbh

[DrPepper12]

I would say very odd and what the deal?

[FunkyMonkee]

Never had a real girlfriend. Thoughts?

[Rockey_the_bicker]

I am curious to know why you don't have boyfriend?

[Iceaneyes]

Why would you thinn

[Rockey_the_bicker]

Because of your age

[Rockey_the_bicker]

Can we talk in DM?

[In_Trance]

At your age that's a huge red flag