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Probably porn. I can never live up to that perfectly curated stimuli. A man using porn regularly, especially as a replacement for our intimacy, would be the equivalent of a woman talking about (and acting upon) how much she respects and desires every guy, except for her spouse. I know guys (and gals) do it, and I know it's a hard pattern to break. I would not judge someone for the practice, since it's so common. But I can't really help how it would make me feel, not to mention the trafficking and objectifying aspect of it. If a guy wanted to crush my spirit, all he would need to do is have a regular porn habit. :(
Masturbation is different; that's a natural and necessary form of release and can be done apart from porn use.
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A classy and well thought out response as always šÆšš¼
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@HawkPerception Thanks! :D
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He recently told me that the fact that I lost weight has made him less physically attracted to me and that he wants me to be obese.
He admitted to spending time on a fat-fetish website and even messaging women on it at one point.
Iām still overweight, 220lbsā¦I feel disgusting even after having lost as much weight as I have and now I feel uncomfortable around my boyfriend because he thinks Iām too thin.
Iām losing my mind.11 Reply- 1 mo
That tells me that you're not compatible with him. Also, him liking you to be unhealthy isn't in your best interest.
In my relationship, thereās been this recurring feeling of rejection thatās hard to shake. Whenever I try to express my emotions or talk about how somethingās affecting me, Iām met with either indifference or outright hostility. Itās like my feelings arenāt valid, and instead of support, I get blamed for even bringing it up. Then thereās the random blocking on social media, which just adds to the disconnect. It makes me question if my emotions even matter. And over time, that constant dismissal starts to feel less like love and more like rejection.20 Reply
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I don't have a partner and haven't for 10 years so I haven't had to worry about this kind of thing 😁 Sucks for all of you in relationships who still think it's worth having
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@ManInChains I'm sorry for how badly you were hurt. That's awful. :(
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Not so bad now after all this time. I learned a lot from it. Learned a lot about female nature
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@ManInChains I wish you all the best, man. :)
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Thanks, I guess
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He doesn't respond to me for hours like 24 or more hours. he's very unresponsive when we are apart. And he lives with an ex girlfriend who is jealous of me and had blocked me from his account. When i bring this up he asks me to be patient and says iam disrespectful
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You're in a relationship with a guy that LIVES with his ex girlfriend? Jesus Christ... you have the faith of Noah himself
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I'm tempted to talk about it here, but there's no point. We're working it out :)
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"Just joking/kidding" After EVERY passive aggressive comment made about me
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When he doesn't complain that I have to many clothes on makes me feel undesirable or when he pays attention to his phone when I'm trying to strut my stuff lol. I feel rejected when he doesn't open up specially to the little things a out his day or just anything.
00 Reply 455 opinions shared on Dating topic. Ignore met this girl everything seems to be going right and now sheās been ignoring me for the past three days for no reason my heart is broken but I expected as much they always leave they all do
10 Reply7.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. My ex used to ignore me most of the time.
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Huh?
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Very bad
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