Why would a mom try to control everything her 19 year old daughter does?

[Anonymous]

[Being_a_good_Indian]

In a nutshell, a mother might try to control her 19-year-old daughter's life due to overprotectiveness, cultural expectations, personal experiences, fear of loss, unresolved issues, or a lack of trust.

[Asker]

Sex life is what she trying to control

[Jersey2]

Likely to protect you. She is wise to the world and no matter what you think, you are not.

[Asker]

She verbally abused me and accused me of stuff I didn’t din

[Asker]

*don

[Asker]

*Of stuff I didn’t do

[Jersey2]

Grow trust with her. Have some heart to heart talks out over a dinner or two.

[petitedollbabee]

Depends on the type of control. Could be trying to protect her, could be jealous and trying to sabotage her, or could just be incredibly strict and overbearing.

[Asker]

Controlling her sex life

[jazzy34]

Is the 19 year old still under her roof? Also, is the 19 year old financially independent?

[Asker]

I’m talking about controlling her sex life

[jazzy34]

You didn’t answer my questions. If you want your mom not to control your sex life, don’t talk to her about it.

[Asker]

I’m currently not under her roof

[Asker]

Not independent yet living with other family members

[jazzy34]

Okay, I still don’t understand how she’s trying to control your sex life. Has she caught you having sex or something? If not, don’t talk with her about it.

[Asker]

Nope she never caught me having sex

[Asker]

She started calling me a ho and slut accusing me of having sex and being pregnant when I wasn’t. She admits she likes to make up stuff and accuse people of stuff they didn’t do.

[schoolgirlskirtcaley]

If she lives under your roof you have some control, but I suggest pick your battles

[dudeinohio]

The 19 year old is an adult and needs to assert themselves.

[Danny_dan92]

Move out if this bothers you

[Asker]

I did and she still trying to control me

[Danny_dan92]

She’s a psycho

[Asker]

I know

[Asker]

That’s why I ask this question on here

[Danny_dan92]

Just don’t kill her. Put a restraining order on her and run away

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

by the way she’s the one who wanted to kill me

[Danny_dan92]

Wow, really?