Is it better for a woman to approach a guy she likes or be approached?

[Babygirl_S]

Since the guy who isn’t interested first may not like you as much so is it better to be passive?

[Finchie40]

They are both good , it’s ok for an anyone to approach someone that they find attractive and interested in. That person just has to have the confidence to do so and not be hurt if they get denied , even though it can suck to be denied but at least you have an answer instead of having no answer at all

[JimmyBgoode12]

There is no harm for either sex to take the initiative for asking the opposite sex out.

I think it would be foolish for a girl who really likes a bloke, for her not to approach him, because another girl could approach him, and you have lost out, because girls think men should do the approaching.

At end of the day, if you don't ask, you might lose out on the opportunity.

I have being approached by a few girls in my time.

I have no issues girls approaching me, I actually gain a lot of respect for her. Even the answer is no. i still respect her, in her courage to ask me.

Go for it, you have nothing to lose, except a dented ego if he says no, but only for a short time.

[AviatorTom]

They are both good. Why should one be better than the other?

[Avicenna]

Approach if you know you want something with the guy

[Berethor]

The guy could use the same logic, since the girl who isn’t interested first may not like him as much so is it better to be passive, I don't think that it matter who approach first, what matter is if you end up together or not, yes it traditional for a guy to approach, but it also traditional for a girl to be a housewife. If you both approach and get approached then you likely have a bigger dating pool than a girl who just wait to get approached.

[Zack-Bann]

Let me put it this way: if this is you in the profile pic you could approach a monk in a monastery and he’d abandon the cloth to be with you


Women approaching is such a rare thing which makes it overpowered


Unless the woman herself is a 2/10 in which case she’ll get mild success only

[Twalli]

Guys don't like rejection anymore. Some of us are reticent to approach a girl because we fear rejection. If a guy is interested in you, but won't approach you, and you are also interested in him, make the first move. No guy dislikes the girl making the first move.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you play stupid games you win stupid prizes. I can't read your mind. If you're interested and waiting silently on the side, you're losing out to the woman who isn't. Action begets action.

[Fireguy17]

if you don't approach him, he probably will never know that you would like to get together and lose out altogether.
Guys are pretty clueless that way.

[NathanDavis]

I'll take either... either way, we could end up together

[Starrrboy]

Best case scenario is woman gives the signs, man takes the initiative... but if she's not on his radar and it's like a one sided crush, the only way would be she approaches him...

[soe11]

• Not necessarily only men approach to women.
• You can too depending on society and culture.

[ProbablyClueless]

Carpe Diem! If you want it, you have to get after it.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Most of my single friends have stopped approaching because girls have been disrespectful so it’s probably best if you approach.

[genericname85]

if you want it, go and get it. no point in playing the sitting duck.

[nawtee_me]

No, seize the opportunity while you have it because you may not get it again. Let him know how you feel. Ask him out…

[RedInnocent69]

Go ahead. Don’t be afraid to approach. We’re often just as afraid of you as you are of us.

[LiamJHayden]

He might just be unaware of her interest. If she approaches at least she knows.

[OtterMan68]

guys love it when the woman takes the initiative.

[dragoblack]

Approach the guy. Guys in the USA nowadays are tired of being led on, used, and constantly rejected.

[noohair]

Some times ego blocks men from talking to women they like.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thst all depends on the woman and what she wants. Is that you in your profile pic

[slatyb]

Ask for what you want.

[shortster]

It doesn't hurt to give it a chance.

[msc545]

It is better to approach the guy.

[Slim57]

Either should approach if interested

[eagle1951]

what ever get you together

[Jpie555]

I think either way is fine

[dsrice071966]

It is better to say something.

[dudeinohio]

Approach the guy