Why do some people never get a response from online dating, even when they send multiple messages or initiate conversations?

[Dan_Juliet02]

[SueShe]

We all know that dating apps are actually hook up sites where desperate men are attempting to get into the pants of those desperate women that fall into that trap.

Most girls will probably not answer to those requests because they are aware that those guys are only fishing for victims but are not serious about dating.

Men in their prime age, that is around 18-25 are not interested in getting a long term relationships. By long term, I means something like 25+ years. All they are interested in is to relieve their tension created by their levels of testosterone.

Thus, girls are cautious because they are aware of those facts. Men will initiate contact with any girl, regardless whether they are pleasant to look at or not.

[Ariesman81]

Then perhaps your definition of prime age is wrong

[SueShe]

@Ariesman81 You are absolutely right. There is no age for perverts. They are even found at a much later age as well.

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... the older ones are just a lot more up front about it.

[RowdyYates]

Desperate men are looking for desperate women. Stop with your childish shit.

[SueShe]

@RowdyYates oh! butthurt aren't we. I must have hit a delicate nerve here!

[RowdyYates]

Dating sites are all sex sites. But you don’t call the women on those sites perverts. He just called the men perverts. Something must be wrong wrong with your brain.

[SueShe]

@RowdyYates if women are desperate enough to go on those sex sites, it is because they hope to find romance. Men go for the sex and that is where the difference lies.

Women don't think with their genitals to the same extent as men do. Our only brain is between the ears while yours is between the legs.

[RowdyYates]

Women go to sex clubs for romance? I didn't know that. Good to know. Thanks.

[Smashingdoozy]

People who don't get responses ^

[red324]

Sadly, if i took the time to read profiles and decide if I liked them before swiping I'd probably never get a response. I'd usually swipe right and wouldn't look until I matched with them. Doing this method, I'd start getting matches. Also, if I left the door for a while it took a couple weeks of swiping to get matches again, but I'd get quite a few if I was persistent, so just keep swiping more. Swipe until you hit the daily limit, then do it again tomorrow

[Nonamez]

The least worry you should have why other people don't respond to your text , no need to reply to every text of everyone's, they might not be interested in you , nothing wrong here , they might be in touch with someone else , find peace with that and move on , multiple texts to someone who don't reply is not a smart move 🤓

[Avicenna]

Bad profile, have dealbreakers, bad pics, no info provided, so seem like a catfish.

[zagor]

On some of the sites I was on in the past, you could only respond to messages if you were a paid member, whereas you could create a profile for free. So a lot of people created profiles but only a percentage were paid members and able to reply.

[Anonymous]

Online dating is mostly just for entertainment value. I as a guy don't really even message women on dating apps. There really is no point. The women who want to meet you WILL message you. And the ones that don't you really don't need to worry about. Let them play whatever games they want to.👍

I wish I could normalize this with all guys. It would be better for everyone.

[ManInChains]

Because dating apps don’t work. You may march with someone and have a conversation but you won’t meet them.

[jojouzumaki]

Initiate a conversation is good but then we have to wait for a response. In addition, Being bombarded with multiple messages rather than a single coherent communication is extremely annoying.

[TurtlePoop]

You have to contact guys in your same range.

[jazzy34]

Most people these days don’t know how to hold a conversation, unfortunately.

[genericname85]

Mostly it's cause you're aiming too high. The other reason would be that you're a man but I guess you're not.

[Ironco]

I'd respond, you are very attractive.

I would want to get to know you.

Some guys are just trolls or married is my guess.

[Sangramraje]

I think they don't know how to start conversation and their profile don't look attractive and mostly women get many messages from many men's so women ignore most of them

[Likes2drive]

Usually it’s the pictures or the profile description, maybe have a friend do it for you

[Surely]

Maybe they are just interested on who and if they may know someone on the site.

[moneymagnet24]

Your last sentence is the reason..
You look desperate when you reach out when you already ignore.

[ChicoFromThe305]

They probably found something they didn't like

[Luckycharms12]

sending multiple messages comes off as desperate

[woahhh152]

It's used for hookups

[Shihab_91]

Because they should Walk away

[jjj101010]

That happening to u?

[Iron_Man]

Bad profile