Do you believe you have confidence?

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Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Yes despite the fact that I’m made to feel I’m worthless, I believe in myself. I am called ugly at least once every month but I just look into the mirror and remind myself that it’s ONLY because an Indian woman’s value is lower than a street dog 🐶 not because there’s actually something wrong with my face or body. They say an Indian woman should at least look like Aishwarya Rai to be considered a human but I disagree. Even she was beaten up by ugly incel called Salman Khan and her own ugly husband has now left her. Her entire family mistreats her. No handsome white actor proposed for marriage when she was young. Even Bollywood actresses marry regular looking white men who have normal jobs. A guy once questioned my preference for taller men and asked me where my leverage came from. He clearly meant that just because I’m an Indian woman I should marry a short guy. Excuse me why? Being an Indian is not a flaw. Why don’t they ask those creepy Indian guys with 4/10 faces who are stealing their 8/10 girls in the west due to high incomes?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I guess it depends what your definition of confidence is. I know people who think I lack confidence cause I sometimes slouch or have poor posture in a room or because I don't wear expensive clothes for social events. I have met people who think I am too confident cause I seem undisturbed when people try to influence me with their views or desires. I would say I have high personality confidence but limited job confidence, I believe I'm hard working but I also believe many people have more relevant business experience than me.

Jersey2 · Accepted Answer

I believe that women do not know what true confidence is in a man. They pick such losers much of the time and claim these guys have confidence because they simply talked a good game. Now these guys are learning how to fake it and it is working. SMH.

Yes, I do have confidence. I have been successful and have managed incredible things globally. That doesn’t mean however that I can take my eye off the ball and still hit home runs. I need some nervousness to push me to prepare for new challenges so that I may rise to the occasion.

Being unsure is a propellant to success at times. The loser that you see in the bar that fakes it would never admit that even if they knew. I despise fake confidence as I see these people as losers who just don’t know anything about the subject. They are the same guys who pretend they know better that the professional athlete who is actually on the field and made the team, unlike these assholes.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes I do , I am not a shy person whatsoever and I am not really judgmental , , I just treat people the same way I like to be treated. I’ve always been told I am the life of a party, because I am very outgoing and talkative. If I walk into a room with a bunch of quiet people , I will break the ice and get everyone talking whether I crack jokes or bust peoples’ balls , I will get them laughing and socializing.

adriana_wife · Answer

No i guess i dont have confident i literally shake when i had to peoples i stutter when i speak to peoples not in front of ym close friends but in general i can't give the order properly in the restaurant or to answer in simple way when someone asks me

EmmaMary · Answer

@coolcatmar1  I don't just believe it, I know it, and have been told this countless number of times... Along with my assertiveness.

Kelly6 · Answer

Do I believe? Yes Proof is that I believe that I have, otherwise I would have said no.

ManInChains · Answer

No need for it. If a man is confident with a woman she'll take it as though he won't take no for an answer. Or that he is coming on to get too strongly. They say confidence is a good thing when it's only hurting men. Don't fall for the bullshit.

Nirmroth · Answer

Self confidence yes around other people or in big groups not so much.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

confidence? it's my second name :D

college-student2021 · Answer

I’ll say yes and more each year as I gain more experience in the workforce.

BLP11520 · Answer

Confidence grows as we mature, we gain confidence as we gain life experience. Everybody has their limits we need to know how far we can push ourselves, no matter what the endeavor👍

The_Confusion · Answer

Confidence in what? Solving a 7 inch rubrics cube? No.

pascal_climbs · Answer

I usually have a good degree of confidence. I need it for my job (IT installer and problem solver)

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, probably too much for my own good.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I do overall

Staximus · Answer

I'm not Mr confident until somebody's about to die or I'm about to die, then I turn into fat Jesus

Anonymous · Answer

No. I’ve always suffered with self esteem issues.

ABC29 · Answer

I have no idea, but my boundaries and my lack of fear of saying things I want or something like that leave my girlfriend surprised sometimes. So yes.

Avicenna · Answer

I have plenty of it

itsgonnabemee · Answer

No I really dislike myself not comfortable with myself

Jltakk · Answer

Nope, my confidence has been eroded away over time.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I am very confident.

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m not really sure

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes. Probably more than is warranted.

LiamS95 · Answer

I know that I'm very confident. 😘

Abbycado · Answer

Yep.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

I have my moments 🤔😂

MoonFace2 · Answer

Yes, minus the arrogance

Gauoda_ · Answer

I have only 1 % Confidence in me

Agape93 · Answer

I know I do

SuckOnThisOpinion · Answer

yeah

NathanDavis · Answer

I know, it

Alex-Snow · Answer

Most of the times... yes hbu?

jamesgoldman · Answer

In business surely  Generally less do

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. But I’m still shy underneath.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Yep.

grega239 · Answer

In some areas of life, yes.

Slim57 · Answer

Not really, in some things yes

Anonymous · Answer

Black guys have more confidence

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I don't have it.

DJB72 · Answer

A modicum I think

eagle1951 · Answer

yess

MasterKS · Answer

I am!

Notherndude84 · Answer

I believe I do

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yep.

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