HELP! I’ve caught feelings for my hookup?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been hooking up for almost two months. We don’t text during the week, but talk for hours after and before a hookup. I have been historically heartless when it comes to boys, so I am actually terrified that I think I have feelings for him now. I don’t know what to do. I am horrified.

[Anonymous]

Hate to break it to you, but you’re not actually void of a heart. You’ve just conditioned yourself not to form attachments because you’re afraid to get hurt again to which I’d say, stop running from your trauma and deal with your shit. You are spiritually tying yourself to these men, opening yourself to whatever negativity or darkness they’re carrying. Then that becomes part of you. You don’t want all these random mens energy.

[Cripplingkingship]

Just cause have feeling for someone, doesn't mean you have to date him or love him.

You love lions right, doesn't mean you will get into a cage with one.

All these sexual encounters with this guy, is not a good idea, cause it will lead to feelings. It happened to me with a girl, so I stop having sex with her, because she not relationship material for me.

If you do every thing based on your feelings, you are definitely going to get hurt every time.

Either ignore the feelings and keep having sex, or end the sexual encounters with him, and find a relationship with a man, without these worries.

[teamvic]

Hmmm are you asking for help to get over him or to get with him

[Asker]

I can’t tell what I want! I absolutely cannot get hurt

[teamvic]

Bruh

How you expect people to help

[Enginn]

So are you scared of him? Why are you heartless?

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's quite the pickle you've got yourself in

[scott04sa22]

Date him

[Asker]

how would one execute that?

[scott04sa22]

Ask him out

[Anonymous]

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