Does my hookup have feelings for me

[beans909]

Ive been recently hooking up with this guy who I used to date briefly 2 years ago. When I come over we have sex and he kisses me a lot during it and eats me out the majority of the time. Also he holds/spoons me when we sleep and he kisses me bye. Also if I start talking about my recent ex boyfriend who I'm not totally over, he says stop you're making me jealous

[srobe]

I had a similar situation with a girl that I hung out with (barely a date). I ended up staying the night with her in bed (no sex) but I couldn't help but wanting to cuddle and I caught myself kissing her neck once in a while. I wasn't really that interested in dating her honestly, but just wanted to feel the intimacy. It could be a similar scenario, just perhaps he does care for you to some degree that might extend a bit beyond friends.

[corbmonster]

sounds plausible. Is he a good guy? Sounds like it. Give him a chance. He obviously cares for you. He is being patient and waiting for you to feel better. But if I may: if you're not completely over your ex, why are you forming bonds with another guy already?

[Dylan1989]

Possibly. When he holds you and kisses you and spoons you do you reciprocate?