Should I ask my girlfriend about other guys she saw before me?

[Anonymous]

I'm her first boyfriend, but I kinda wonder about the other packages of guys she saw before me. I think I could handle what she would tell me, I just wonder how she would react.

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't recommend asking her about past guys, dude. That's kind of an awkward subject and could make her uncomfortable, you know?

She's with you now, so dwellin' on other dudes probly ain't gonna do you any good. Might even make you crazy thinkin' about it too much!

Girls don't usually want us grilling them on their number or whoever they hooked up with before we were together. Just be cool that you're the one with her now.

I'd say focus on makin' her happy in the present instead of livin' in the past. Treat her right and she won't be thinkin' about anyone else, ya know? No need to put her on the spot or get all possessive.

Just enjoy your time with her dude! Don't stress the small stuff - she picked you so must be doin' somethin' right.

[meepmeeperton]

I was in the same situation as you, I'm my current girlfriend's first real boyfriend. She had a long distance thing with a guy before me who she never even met in real life. I was curious and asked her friend who had also seen this same guy's package (my girlfriend showed her). She described it as looking like a "brown chode." I felt a little better knowing I'm bigger than him, but it was kinda stupid even asking. I realized I was just trying to serve my own ego, which is insecure and unattractive behavior. If you can just let it go, you'd probably be better off that way.

[Anonymous]

Definitely not. Nothing good comes from that. Some moron asked me that once and I had to lie because he obviously wasn't going to like the answer. Then that was the end because I don't want to deal with insecurity and immaturity of someone who would ask something so juvenile.

[boggboss]

Why what are u looking to gain from asking this hwo do u benefit from it

[Nirghata_Vrishaghata]

There’s 0 mileage to be gained by asking such a question.

[Kellyamy]

It doesn't matter, past is past..

[In_Trance]

Never