How to initiate a friends with benefits type relationship I’m shy?

[Anonymous]

How is a girl suppose to get sex if she’s extremely shy, under socialized, has no friends. I also live on an acreage and feel so far away from everything lol. I just got out of a bad 10 year relationship. I’m excited to do things but don’t know how to find a guy 😅. I feel like going to bar or club alone is dangerous? I have no friends to go with. I get approached everywhere I go and have thousands of people trying to contact me, but they don’t live nearby, so I know I’m 10/10 it’s just that I’m so so shy I can barely speak and am soo awkward 😕

[ClassicDropout]

Well for 1, don't go to a bar to find men. Do something you enjoy doing and find guys that share that in common with you. I'd say just casually talk with people until you find what you're looking for.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Do you have any male acquaintances that you wouldn't mind having inside you?

Generally, if men think they have a chance to have sex with you, they'll do most if not all of the work. Though you DO generally have to give them some sign that they have a shot.

Do you know ANY guys in real life who are reasonably attractive, that you're on speaking terms with, even if you're not friends?

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Thanks for the MHO.

Good luck finding a friend-with-benefits.

[Ironic_Method]

Fortunately for you, being shy or awkward will have little bearing on getting a friends with benefits. Use a dating app, vet for the one you like and there is a good chance that they'll put in the extra work to make it happen.

[Anonymous]

Well if you want to put no effort in like this and make every excuse in the book you probably don't. Also, this isn't that hard. So your standards must be ridiculous. So again, you probably don't.👍

[moneymagnet24]

"I get approach by thousands"
Cheap price stuff always attract crowds. 🤌

[Asker]

I’m referring to the sites I’ve tried it’s pretty overwhelming

[Benlovegs]

What about this type of relationship you like?

[sedd69]

Ask me!!