I see often on gag and real life where ladies are literally chasing men who express no interest. For example, " I talked to this guy on Tinder for 5 minutes. I fell in love. Why won't he contact me it's been three days? I'm going to search his social media. Omg he's a jerk he went on a date with some girl, and I'm going to message her !"
(Pictured: Pretty Woman: Status wise, Vivian was out of Edward's league. He was a very wealthy businessman, but when it came to attractiveness, she was very beautiful and well within his league. )
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And a woman should not be chasing a man. If you have to chase that means you're not attractive ladies.
You answered your own question? They are desperate period. Desperate people look for love in all the wrong places , they are just infatuated with the person that they just met , but they donāt really know much about them , they just assume they know them , before looking at the big picture. Why people are stupid to race into a relationship with someone , it takes time to really get to know someone , itās best to be friends with someone first instead of falling in love with that person. Especially in todaysā world with how selfish people have become , I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , I will still be nice respectful to her and date her but she will not be my girlfriend until her and I both truly choose each other and know each other
Speaking from experience, women would rather be miserable with someone attractive than happy with someone in their league. Iāve even started dating not so attractive women, cause they seem to have much better personalities, and even theyāre starting to think so highly of themself, because a decent looking guy blew her back out while drunk in a bar bathroom. Itās sad. These women have a rude awakening coming. No other generation had this issue nearly as bad either, you used to meet people in person, and build connections, now itās ānot cute enough, NEXTā and we wonder why more and more women are becoming single mothers, and marriage rates are down lol. Iām a pretty attractive guy, and while I can get women, they all seem to be head over heels madly in love with some loser who treats them badly. or theyāre always on the lookout for the next best guy, regardless if theyāre single or not. Itās sad.
For me itās honestly the opposite problem, I have a very difficult time attracting men that Iām actually attracted to. I consider myself pretty decent looking at least and Iām in shape physically but if the issue isnāt attraction if Iām attracted to a manās looks Iāll usually be unnatracted to his personality? A lot of thr men Iāve talked to at least just have no conversational skills, Iām the only one keeping convos going and I really just am not attracted to that.
I just think im more attracted to traditionally masculine men and i know when men (in general) when they want something they donāt beat around the bush and bullshit with you so i dont chase after men like that anymore 🤷🏽āāļø
And I have the opposite problem of you haha, I'm also a personality driven dater and I struggle to find girls whose personality I am interested in. I know its not the majority of girls since I know my personality appeals to a specific kind of girl who appreciates it. But I have no idea where to find those girls. I'm sure I encounter plenty if I walk trough a busy street but I have no idea how I can pick them out since they have normal styles or outright don't go out much since going out is not something I enjoy either.
@KrakenAttackin I don't think thats true in her case, since she wants pretty common qualities like a talkative guy who can hold a conversation. Could be an age thing where the guys her age haven't developed that ability yet but I don't immediately assume unreasonable standards here.
Because you are out of those men's league that's why you can't get them. You think you're attractive yet they don't find you attractive which means you're aiming to high @caitycat21. The men u want are out of your league so you will have to settle for what u get which are the guys u aren't attracted to. Basically ur at the level of the men u aren't attracted to
@KrakenAttackin right she's aiming to high. The men she wants do not find her attractive there for she needs to stay in her league which are the men that she finds unattractive because she's at their level looks wise
@CarolinaGirl5 Iām always upfront with giving recent pictures of myself so they know what I look like and many of them find me attractive/wonder why Iām still single so thatās not really the case. The dating poll is just pretty shit, and Iād like to experience young love at least :( my first relationship was with a narcissist so I also think a part of me is scared to go into a relationship after my first ended so terribly
@KrakenAttackin I donāt even have a specific type of man, Iām just attracted to what Iām attracted to and if I see a man and Iām not attracted to his looks Iām sorry I canāt continue leading them on with a relationship. Itās cruel to them and myself, they should be with someone that finds everything about them attractive should they not? All dating preferences are inherently discriminatory but mine arenāt extremely unrealistic. Me finding them attractive is one/what I find attractive can be pretty broad but in general if he takes care of himself/good hygiene/bonus points if he works out regularly I will find them attractive, Iām attracted to hard working people.. nothing more unattractive than someone with zero drive or ambition in life, and someone with a kind heart. I guess those are my top three things I look for in a partner
@caitycat21what does being upfront have to do with what we are telling u? I don't think you're comprehending. You're not attractive as you think. You're aiming too high. The men u find unattractive are at your level meaning ur just as unattractive as the men u don't like lol
@CarolinaGirl5 you havenāt even seen me to call me unattractive š you honestly seem so mean spirited, I donāt understand the point of this post. I just gave my two cents
Eh, but that's the point, lol. A lot of men who are elitists will pay to have companionship/sex with a prostitute because there are no feelings (heartless) it is transactional. Men in his position often cheat on their wives with these transactional women in order to Vent their frustrations and do someone new. But yes I agree and women do turn their noses up at the good guys then get mad when these dorks
That's what men do when they're interested they "pursue" that is a masculine role. But if a woman is chasing a man calling him, texting him back to back, wondering why he hasn't contacted her it is a sign he is not interested. Seems a lot of women hate to know they have been rejected and found as unattractive by the opposite sex
I think it is that every girl has a lottery ticket at birth that becomes a valid entry in her 20's. Nobody ever deserves the jackpot but somebody has to win it.
The lottery psychology applies in this arena too - somebody has to win the prize. It could be you that wins big is the driver. Pretty Woman, Cinderella - there is a whole genre of fiction of girls winning big in love.
Pretty Woman was objectively beautiful but she had other desirable qualities. So whilst a girl might not be startlingly beautiful, she will tell herself wit/charm/etc will be enough to win.
Woman are given a lot of positive reinforcement on how attractive they are. Only the mirror says anything negative. So why wouldn't they believe they can win big.
People in general want attractive people. Most people are ugly and only a small percent of people look good with their cloths off. I have lost track of how many butt ugly people I have seen chasing good looking people. I recall we had one young, good looking coworker join our company some years ago and soon enough they were a bunch of guys at work chasing her around. I would say that maybe one of them was about a good looking as she was and they probably would of made a nice couple. But most of them were married men that were twice her age, had big old beer bellies and and crusty cloths.
There were so many of the "male" comments I had to delete. A lot of these men on gag are very feminine, stating, " Why should we go after the woman? That's not how it works. " Boy, bye I didn't even waste my time going back and forth with them lol
If a man won't pursue a woman he is simply not interested. Men go after what they want. The woman is desperate because she won't accept rejection and begins to take on the masculine role of chasing a man.
If one man wonāt pursue, thereās always another one who will. Women are wise going where they are wanted rather than chasing one who wonāt put in the effort.
CarolinaGirl, yeah Iām in Myrtle. Definitely a good beach vibe here and Charleston has a good city vibe. Iāve been to Charlotte and Asheville/Lake Lure area and love both too
@MzAsh omg please tell me how's the Biltmore estates? That's somewhere I'm debating after I graduate as a gift to myself or iveys, or the Ritz in charlotte near trade st.
@KrakenAttackin because desperate men have inflated their ego. These girls think just because a man has sex with them they can get anyone not realizing men will have sex with a with a 3 but will never have a relationship with her or bring her around anyone he knows
@SnowyOwl he's right. A lot of u women think just because a man has sex with you that it means you're beautiful. It doesn't mean that. It just means he was horny, you were easy, he had sex and that's it. No feelings behind it for him because he's not attracted to u
@SnowyOwl he still can be. The woman is the one who lowered her value not that man. On top of that if he is a 10 financially and looks wise he will pump and dump a 5 . Whose fault is that? Ladies be accountable
@SnowyOwl then be accountable. Are you SLOW? He just said what men do so he was accountable in his honesty now you ladies be accountable by closing your legs and stop being hoes. Being an airhead is not cute
Do you think assuming who I am gives you any credibility? You have no foundation for anything of what you are telling me. When you resort to belittling people as a mean to argument, it shows that you're not very stable in your logic and that's why you turn towards emotional assumptions. Personally I have no need to chase anyone. And I don't care for a self proclaimed "10" ... How a human treats any other human is a proof of their character, their beliefs and habits. A Man who uses a woman solely for physical gratification has no respect for her as a human being, no respect for her emotions nor her well being. And that is a 0 of a person.
I don't care what your standards are, your life choices do not affect me. Regardless of what you try to say, truth is objective. A person capable of critical thinking is capable of comprehending truth when they hear it.
So if you want it simply put, maybe you should try to research how to improve your critical thinking. Since it's not commonly taught in the current educational system, especially in north America, I wouldn't be surprised that any person lacks the ability to think criticality. Luckily for any human being, we all have the capacity to learn, it is our nature. So by all means do yourself a favor, or not. Like I said, your reality does not affect me. Good luck
And that shows your maturity and capacity to reason. You're not looking for truth, you just want to justify your unfounded beliefs. Any solid mentality and behavior requires evaluating as many possibilities as possible to make an educated choice. Otherwise, might as well believe the earth is flat
Female hypergamy, a well demonstrated fact of female sexual instincts. Women always want to be dating up, and are highly selective as well, and the reason for these things is simply that those who had those preferences were more successful, because they chose men that were significantly above them and had the resources to provide for them and their children. It's just instincts.
When they lie to themselves and none of their 'friends' tell them the truth... and society as a whole don't tell them either, then they will remain on the same path. Desperation can be the result of chasing a lie, that they think is the truth.
Some women confuse passion with desperation, but its not about that what is worse then anything is most lack the vibrational capacity to feel the soul too and create a genuine eternal connection from which anything can flourish in harmony. Women can be desperate horny dogs as well bleah.
Because humans have a strong tendency to be delusional when they live in a first world country, have few real life consequences because they live online, and don't study logic and critical thinking
Just because a man needs to release himself doesn't mean he wants the women he releases himself with. Sometimes a man just needs a good releases re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
Instead of women having a F fest in their early 20s they should be honing in on the guys that have potentialā¦ and some women do, they are snapping up all the good ones.
No it's just funny as hell. I'm scrolling and seeing this desperate gag chick post " should I go on a dating app now? he won't talk to me !!" š¤£ they are crazy
My friend got catfished. The woman posted a pic of herself when she was skinny then met my friend as a fat woman. He finished the date yet told her he couldn't be with her since she lied. He became her friend though
Wow, your friend handled that like a champ at least he made a friend out of it! Seems like dating apps really do have some wild stories, huh?" I can see why you'd stay away from dating apps
When I made this same post about men they were all for it but now that the tables have turned they hate hearing that they aren't attractive like they thought
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