My boyfriend thinks our relationship will get boring for lack of intimacy?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 2 years recently confessed that he is very much into naughty stuffs and since i don't like doing dirty talks he is afraid that our relationship will get boring over time because i stop him whenever he starts such talks he thinks it will irritate him and we will have arguments. Although we were being somewhat intimate when we were together but not since we are being in long distance since few months.

What should i do guys?

[Nikki1989]

That is called a lack of compatibility. You will have to meet somewhere in the middle with this, or this relationship will reach a dead-end.

[Asker]

Yeah 😔 i don't really know what to do about this

[BarryLiverstone]

I can see why he has those fears. Have you explained why you have that boundary about sharing naughty sexual thoughts? Or is it more because of the long distance?

[Asker]

Actually he is way too into these things than i am... initially i used to go along with him but overtime i noticed that we get involved. In these stuffs everytime we meet and we stopped going out spending quality time... i talked about it but that didn't help so i decided to stop getting involved in these stuffs just to notice that is he is really into me or he is with me just for these advances.

[BarryLiverstone]

Any time there is an imbalance in the relationship like that it’s not healthy. Sounds like you are withdrawing and if it’s LDR then the connection is dying. Do you still see a future with him?

[BarryLiverstone]

What are his other interests and hobbies?

[slatyb]

He's right. You should try to get over this. If you can't talk about sex it's not much of a relationship.

[Intheclouds00]

It will suffer. He has been up front with you and you have told him you can't do what turns him on. It's not a good situation

[In_Trance]

What do you mean you don't like doing dirty talk

[Asker]

Like i do enjoy being physically intimate.. but texting about it is a big no for me.. feels very awkward and desrespectful to me

[In_Trance]

Your boyfriend is right you guys are in big trouble