My boyfriend is bored of relationship but I'm not, what should I do?

Your boring your not interesting and your boyfriend understands that Vividly.
Sure He lied to you and said he was Joking about When he called you boring.
Why did he lie? Well thank you for asking.
He lied to you because after he said it.
He felt horrible and anxiety washed over him. Which means he’s a good Guy
He sticks around you hangs out with you and accepts you as you are. Sure your boring and not interesting but he accepts that about you. It would be a shame for you to leave a nice man just because Your boring. I had a Girlfriend I was there for her and I tried to be there for her when I could.
I took her out to movies 🎥 and We went to dinner. And I even sent her money occasionally cause she Has to walk everywhere. She broke up with me because I wasn’t hanging out with her 24/7 she got mad cause I told her she couldn’t move in with me. I live in a 1 bedroom and I can’t just move people in.
She broke up with me on the day of My dads funeral. I got Up early To get ready for the funeral after I got ready. I left to go to her place I wanted to make sure she had food and a full stomach. And I wasn’t in the mood for chit chat. My dad dying and all put a strain in My desire to talk. So I just told her while In the car I’m not in the mood for chit chat. She said That’s not nice
She would always accuse me of Being Rude when I Didn’t wanna talk Or hang out with her 24/7
So I took her to dennys cause she Loves the Pancakes. Then I took her to Quicktrip to get her a few large Pizzas for later
Then I dropped her back off at her place.
And When I arrived at the funeral I made sure To turn my phone off it being my dads funeral and all. I didn’t want any outside distractions.
After The funeral I turned my phone back on And I saw a bunch of Texts.
Saying how I’m not good enough I’m not There for her when she Needs me.
So on and so forth I was pretty hurt by the whole thing. I cried a lot and ended up Sleeping in my Truck. I eventually went home but I Was bummed out by everything And I haven’t felt the same since.
@Vendela I strongly disagree with you. Why would you say something like that?
Sounds like it's time to break up if he is not trying. Maybe you are boring to him, ok... Would you be happy with him acting this way the rest of your potentially forever relationship? Probably not, so I would tell him you guys need to fix it or move on.
If he has no issues with leaving you that easily, then you have your answer. Would you want to be with someone that didn't want to be with you anyway? Trying to be someone else gets exhausting. If you like boring things, then find someone that likes the same. Then it's not boring.
Yeah, sorry but based on his behavior, he's trying to end the relationship. He point blank told you he's bored of the relationship and doesn't have much to say to you, right?
Even his behavior tells me he's checked out of the relationship. I know you might still like him and not want to end things, but if he's not putting the effort in and detaching himself from you, why hang on? As bad as it sounds, the longer the relationship goes on, he'll just get more distant... or worse.
Sit him down and ask him how he views your relationship. It may not be a fun talk, but it's necessary.
If a person has already made up their mind about how they think you are, there’s rarely anything you can do to change that. It would be best to start over with someone new who’s a better match with your personality.
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Why are you still with him? Afraid you can't find anyone else if you break up with this guy?
You're giving supply over demand. Don't give him quick replies. Give him time to miss you. Meanwhile you do your other things and fill that time. If he takes 1 hour to reply, you reply him after 1.5 hours. Let him initiate conversations.
Also make it spicy. Seduce him and flirt sometimes.
If none of these works, you two are not compatible
An older couple shared some gems with me. The wife said "do things together. What he was interested in I did with him. What I was interested in he did with me. And our knowledge of each other and different things grew exponentially."
Could be he is just boring though. I don't know you, but I can easily conclude its not you. Just considering you want help.
Why talk for, waste of time especially if nothing interesting worthy of talking about happens in your life. I have a sex doll that I never talk to, it's jus good to have her here with me to accompany on whatever I'm doing... I'd like a real girl to be the same... Communication is pointless unless you need to communicate something
Go on trip and do the no contact. Has to be two working together. A lot times we get entranced by our new partner and we do spend too much time together.. we all need space and time.. give him that and maybe he’ll realize what he has.. if not, it’s hard but, it’s his loss!!
Just make sure you tell him you're doing "no contact" before you actually do it. Otherwise he'll think you ghosted him and he'll move on.
it sounds more like he has a problem rather than a you problem and he is not doing his part as much as it is expected. Don't be hard on yourself for this. If the relationship ends, then it has ran it's course. There is Not much you can do without being too invasive or putting on a facade.
Sounds like he's done but too scared to be the one to end it so he's trying to frustrate you into it.
In my opinion, if he was really truly into you, he'd NEVER get "bored" of you, ever! I'd say goodbye to him and find someone better.
Anal sex?
Seriously, what joy are you giving him, if any? You come across as an attention whore and emotional vampire.
What are you talking about lol
If you are looking for marriage. It is already starting to get boring. GET OUT!
Not much u can do if he is bored does he spend enough time away from you?
Tine to find a man the is respectful and worth your time. dump his ass.
Pizza is wonderful. And delicious. And amazing.
But if you ate pizza every day, wouldn't you get tired of it?
The key is moderation.
We’ll make it work real quick or leave real quick before more emotional attachment happens…
Sounds like it might be best for both of you to start looking elsewhere.
One sided relationship is not a relationship get out before you waste any more time
Maybe you should leave him. And find someone with similar taste as you.
So something to spice it up, like going away for the weekend and introducing some toys. Or even role play.
You should be mystery not everyday talk he will get bored give him space.
Yes, get a new girlfriend and make him chase you. Dress little differently. Some guy love 💕 to chase, or they got you men no longer look 👀 good for you or listing to you. Make him work for it
He sounds too immature for a serious relationship.
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