How do I get a boyfriend? What do guys look for when they are considering if they want a girl to be their girlfriend?

[healmuseee]

I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I talk to guys in my classes, I literally have 70 snap streaks going with guys, I play sports with guys, I'm friends with guys so I know it's not my personality, and I know I'm not ugly because guys want me but none of them are trying to talk to me in a relationship kinda way. Im struggling over here.

[D_Bone_Steak]

"I literally have 70 snap streaks going with guys" - For me this is a red flag, and would immediately put you in the 'Maybe fuck at best' category.

You sound like a "social butterfly" with tons of guys orbiting you... again, maybe fuckable, but nobody wants a relationship with that unless they're just really desperate. ... and I'm assuming you haven't reduced yourself to dealing with the really desperate guys yet.

Just look at the girls that do get a boyfriend... what qualities do they have that you don't? Are they women that have reduced herself to messing with a guy that feels she's the only poontang he's ever going to get? Are they women that aren't all over the place with guys stepping on each other to talk to her?

What we consider is... looks, behavior and then it goes from there. Like if she has so many dude-bro friends, she's just going to cheat. It's a matter of time, but she will and the longer it takes to worse it will hurt.

Also, consider the current sexual marketplace. Women are the only ones who gain anything from a relationship. Men might gain sex, but so do all the guys that pump and dump her like bad cheese. The girl would have to be really serious and not have a swarm of dudes talking to her for basically no reason other than she likes the attention.

[MicahRaine]

"I literally have 70 snap streaks going with guys"

No guy will ask you out, because no guy thinks he's special to you. Because you seem emotionally available to so many guys. I'm not knocking you for that, but guys want to feel special. Especially at your age, most good guys won't ask a girl out who doesn't treat them differently from other guys.

But even if some guy does think he's special to you, he's worried you'll keep DMing the other 69 guys when you start dating.

Drastically reduce the amount of time you spend talking to guys you aren't in a relationship with, and things should get better pretty quickly.

[Anonymous]

"I literally have 70 snap streaks going with guys"

[Avicenna]

They may not know how to

[Iron_Man]

Go to church