How do girls want to find a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Generally Most of you girls are too passive to make it happen. not to finger point at the girls but in other words it very much seems like girls are closing off dating or making it hard for us. I believe the right girl will not make it hard or complicated for us to be in a relationship. This is reinforced by the type of girls, who are saying they are not dating but days or weeks later found some other guy to go out with.

[Anonymous]

I’m 31 and have never had a boyfriend before. In all these years I’ve been approached by men that are interested in 1. sex, 2. getting married 3. having a family…and not to mention that the majority of those guys are generally younger than me. 🤦🏻‍♀️ So, it has been very difficult for me to find a boyfriend where their interests are different than mine. I would mind staying with a guy with whom I have a good emotional and sexual connection with, BUT with no attachments. (I think that’s where guys turn around and I decide is best to be single)

[Asker]

No attachments? What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

No marriage, no kids…just faithfulness and honesty that’s all

[Asker]

Oh, i dig that. Really. This Sounds more than good to me.

[Opinion Owner]

I know, most guys I’ve dated say that…but the more we get to know each other, they suddenly want marriage, kids…which is fine because we all pursue different things for our happiness, but those things are not for me.

[Asker]

I have been consistent in not wanting kids for sure. Not a fan of marriage either.

[LazerBean]

When a guy wanted to get to know me, we would talk for a while until I figured out if we were compatible enough to level up the relationship. That's it.

[fonduegirl]

Girls who say they're taking a break from dating are usually too polite to reject you.

[Asker]

Bingo

[fonduegirl]

I don't do that. I usually bluntly reveal if I don't like someone. It costs me a few friends, but I think that's a small price for being appreciated in long run.

[Asker]

Thats a very good thing i must say. No beating around the bush.

[fonduegirl]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

I have never looked. Guys come to me.