Tell me where I can find you girls, who are looking for a boyfriend.
No, I don't mean I am looking for a girlfriend here on GAG (unless you happen to live in proximity where I live). I need to know where to find girls, that want a boyfriend.
I would say in public is the best way but it seems these days the internet as well , I think after the whole Covid shit most people are content in their homes and things aren’t really the same anymore , so meeting someone from the internet isn’t that bad as long if you don’t get scammed or catfished , just play it smart and don’t rush into anything , internet is a good way to get to know someone if they are being honest as well. Some dating sites are good as well mainly the ones you have to pay for , less scammers on there , and you can actually meet someone that is looking to date instead of someone trying to scam you , A few of my friends joined dating sites that they have to pay and at first I was like fuck that , but they are actually meeting girls’ easier then trying free dating sites that are filled with catfishes and scammers , so basically you are paying to eliminate that shit which it is worth it if you are truly seeking someone that’s in it for the long haul , just be careful on which dating sites are legit and not cuz there are ones that make you pay and it’s filled with fake profiles , Me personally rather just meet someone in public , to me it’s easier to break the ice if you aren’t shy or nervous , If you are shy or nervous I say join one of the paid dating sites
Most women don’t “look and search” for men unless they are trying to “date up” (and hypergamy bs unfortunately is very real but that’s a different discussion).
Most women put themselves in environments where they want to be approached. However they want to be approached by “the right guy”. They expect men to pick up on “signals”. But where women often go wrong is they assume men pick up these “signals” and body language as if they think the same way as women. Most guys don’t naturally pick up on those subtleties (albeit a few naturals). However more experienced guys can catch on.
Anyway to a limited extent more women are approaching men nowadays. However it is no where it should be (50% of the time.). It requires risk and effort which are two things women have a hard time with.
Also most women are often deathly afraid of rejection. They don’t handle it well. I’ve had a few scary past incidents with this.
Anyway I know it sounds like I’m ventilating above. But really single hood rates are way up. I notice that many leftist publications often blame men for being addicted to porn, dating apps, etc. for not approaching woemn.
However that isn’t the main reason why most guys don’t approach as often as they used to. The real reason is that guys are stressed and paranoid about the “creep factor” thanks to #metoo and feminist hatred of men.
However I will admit there is one thing guys can improve upon (immediately). Guys can NOT take a woman approaching as a green light for sex. I can understand why that makes women paranoid. I confess I made that mistake once or twice when I was much younger. It was wrong and disrespectful. If she wants a quickie she will initiate that as well if she approaches you first. But don’t asume that’s the case right off the bat. Just engage her and respectfully go from there.
I mainly go to church so I wouldn't mind finding a respectable guy at church. I don't mean like a guy that just wants casual sex, isn't mature, and just wants to play the field. I prefer a guy that knows what he wants and is done playing games. So if that's you, a church girl would be good for you. Also, obviously you know believing in God is a requirement lol.
I don’t know. I’ve tried everything from 5 dating apps, joining church, getting a job, flirting with appliance repair guys, even doing daily errands and flirting with cashiers. But no luck with the local guys in my area. Only foreign guys from different countries who want to marry me just for a working visa.
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I almost met up with a girl on here. We exchanged nudes and face pics, but when I sent her my face, she laughed at me and said I was ugly but I'm "nice to talk to!"
Except I'm not ugly, I'm good looking. So I got fucking trolled hard lol. I'm so stupid
It was so much easier back in school because i’d just date people who went to my school or church or people I met in libraries and on the video game aisle. Now its just meeting people at the movies, grocery store, gas station, sports events, or work
I actually had great success with dating apps. I don't really like going out in public often, but I do like museums. I wouldn't mind someone approaching me there
Bars and clubs 💀 but those r the types u avoid.
Any public place, u can meet ur soul mate.
My husband approached me in a Walmart.
You can meet people anywhere if you have the right attitude and motivation.
Anywhere I like to hang out. For the sake of increasing my chances to find likeminded people with the same interests.
Good question. Where do girls go? Other than clubs and bars which is more a place to meet drunk people.
I don't have a problem when a guy politely talks to me on the bus or at school or library, however I feel like no decent men actually do it anymore. It's always the creeps.
u Right here on a gag people have met from here before even gotten married
I found my boyfriend on tinder🤷♀️
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