Guys with fuck buddies… why won’t you date them/make it official?

[Anonymous]

This is just a general question to guys in a friends with benefits situation. What standards of yours do they not meet or qualities do they lack?

[slatyb]

You are making the incorrect assumption that everyone wants a life partner. Some people don't, but still want a sex partner.

[ClassicDropout]

Dating is a hassle when you don't see eye to eye. Nobody is really going to agree with my style of dating so I don't bother.

[Alex-Snow]

I am in a casual friends with benefits situation. We both are in college and both of us have no desire to have a true relationship. We both enjoy sex with each other and are happy with that at the moment.

[Crankor]

Sometimes it's obvious an actual relationship just won't work with them

[Asker]

How so? In my current situation, it’s because she wants kids and I don’t.