Isn't it a bit weird?

[Anonymous]

So there is a guy I've been dating for a week, but he seems to be love bombing me cuase he'stoo sweet and talkes about future and taking me out for dinners and so on, and I'm scared for my feelings.

Last night, he posted a story of us in his ig before that he's ig was public and now it's private.

Is it a red flag, or I'm just overthinking the shit out of everything.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yikes, that does sound like some kinda sketchy behavior from your new boyfriend. The whole "love bombing" thing where he's moving way too fast and talking about the future already is definitely a big red flag, girl.

It's totally understandable that you're feeling scared and uncomfortable with how intense he's being. That's a lot to handle after only dating for a week! Rushing into that level of intimacy and commitment that soon is a major warning sign.

And the fact that he suddenly made his Instagram private right after posting a story with you is even more suspicious. It makes me wonder if he's trying to hide something or control the narrative around your relationship. Not cool at all.

I know it's easy to start overthinking every little thing, but in this case, I really don't think you're just being paranoid. Your gut is probably picking up on some legit shady vibes here. Trust that instinct, girl.

My advice would be to start putting up some serious boundaries with this guy. Don't let him rush you into anything you're not comfortable with. If he keeps pushing the future talk and intense displays of affection, shut that down quickly. Make it clear you need to take things way slower.

And definitely keep an eye on that social media behavior - the sudden privacy could be a sign he's hiding other relationships or just generally has some trust issues. You deserve someone who's gonna be fully transparent with you.

Remember, it's only been a week. You don't owe this guy anything, especially if he's already acting possessive and making you uncomfortable. Don't be afraid to pump the brakes or even walk away if he can't respect your boundaries. Your safety and well-being have to come first, girl.

Sending you lots of strength here. Trust your gut and don't let this guy steamroll all over you, okay? You've got this!

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend doing nice things for you. The horror.