When do you start confessing love starting from the day you decide to date the person you went on dates?

[Anonymous]

This question came to my mind when I was thinking about how I wil start dating. When my man asks for a date then after some dates he offers us to be official and let's suppose I agree. Then at that point I can't imagine being like "yes baby, you mean so much to me.." lol

I think it would take some time for me to express emotions for him even when I become his girlfriend.

[NathanDavis]

I never date to find out...

I don't start dating before I know I am into someone

might sound odd or too different, I don't know... but I just focus on hanging out with someone to get to know that someone... and only if we're mutually into each other, we do take it from there... and it usually doesn't need confessions, we both just "know it"

[SixFootSexy]

Slavic girl mentality. Tougher sell when you're 30+ and the 20< year old girls are more affectionate and willing.

[Asker]

You can't convince me that gacing had breakups would make me happier.

[Asker]

Having*

[SixFootSexy]

I never said you should go through more breakups, I'm saying you have an idealized version for relationships that is probably from Disney and movies that doesn't exist in reality.

[Asker]

The source you mention is inaccurate.
My views on dating come from my moral views and family values.

[Anonymous]

You're in your 30s if you haven't figured this out already. I don't know what to tell you. To confess love would be for you to truly mean it and feel it; otherwise, you don't confess it.

[Asker]

I mean does it happen on the first day you decide to date?

[IslaTheWitch]

when I feel it... and for us to be together... we both have to be sure what we feel to each other... and it comes naturally...

[Nikki1989]

I have to be 100% sure before I say anything of that nature.

[Asker]

Does that apply to physical intimacy too?

[Anonymous]

As a man nowadays... I don't. I wait for her to say it first.

[Makeushiver]

Rule #1: a calendar is worthless in this calculation
Rule # 2: Don't n assume that there will ever be a correct time.

[nawtee_me]

Yes, official just means that neither of you will see anyone else. It doesn’t mean that you are in love just open to falling in love at some point….

[smashleyy]

love is meant to be cringey I fear. I’m pretty affectionate from the get go

[Jennz6]

I’m not gonna be his girlfriend because I was hurt too many times ❤️‍🩹 💃

[bowenw]

When I know I am sure about it and it is appropriate to tell the other person.

[David5668]

What’s the point of burning your fingers. You’ll both know if and when you’re right for each other. Don’t add a pressure that isn’t necessary.

[Anonymous]

When you thought of how you will start dating? How old are you?

[Asker]

33. I want to start dating in 2 years.

[Opinion Owner]

Seems about 20 years late. Why at 35?

[Asker]

I skipped breakups thankfully

[Opinion Owner]

Breakups don't only happen before 35 you know.

[Asker]

Yes. But now I am here with no breakups. I am glas I've never had an ex.

[Opinion Owner]

That problem doesn't change at all by waiting till your 35 to date. You could also wait until you're 55. Would that make sense to you?

[DryGermanGuy]

I see you’re not the only one puzzled by her modus operandi. 🤷‍♂️

[Opinion Owner]

@DryGermanGuy Indeed. It's like the Warren Buffet joke about doing jobs you don't like in the hopes of developing the perfect resume to get a job you DO like makes about as much sense as saving sex for old age. And here you have the case of someone literally saving sex for old age. lol!

[DryGermanGuy]

Especially when she comes from a part of the world where the girls were married off at age 15 to make themselves useful on the farms.

[Asker]

I am happy. I'm not heartbroken. No emotional baggage.

[Asker]

You can't convince me that having had breakups would make me happier.

[Opinion Owner]

No one is trying to convince you that having had breakups would make you happier. What we're all confused by, is why on EARTH you would think that:

dating prior to 35 = breakups

and then somehow some miracle occurs and

dating after 35 = no breakups.

What the hell is that?

[Asker]

I am more mature than before. Way more mature than I was when I was a teen
I said I am 33.
You said "Seems about 20 years late"
20 years ago lol
At 13.
You think it would be wise of me to date at 13.

[Opinion Owner]

I meant 35 is 20 years late. And yes--most people start doing SOME kind of dating around 15-16 or so. You don't get better at interacting with other people by avoiding interacting with other people.

[Asker]

And most people have had many breakups by the time they are 35.

Not getting emotional baggage is one of the benefits I have.

[DryGermanGuy]

So you will create emotional baggage from age 35 onward. Or do you think a completely inexperienced person will pick the perfect partner for herself at first try?

[Asker]

@DryGermanGuy the chances of me picking the best partner now that I am mature is higher than the chances of me having picked the best partner when I was immature? Dating when. you are immature only creates emotional baggage. That experience only ruins your personality and kills your enthusiasm

[elifbrn]

When I feel that I love him really

[kaucky1]

It's doable without speaking

[Hotboy_booblover]

Before immediately