Do you prefer dating the party person or the homebody?

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Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

I've posted a similar question before.

I'm a bit of a party girl right now cos I'm single and being in a crowd makes it easier for me to not look or feel alone! And get social interaction.

But I don't need to do it. But I do like to go out. So I'd want a "party guy" if that means we want to go pub to socialise, go to concerts and comedy shows and cinema and stuff. Be active. I'd enjoy club too if he wanted to and can behave himself (not flirting other women).

I also like homebody things. Movies, talking and music nights, snuggling. But need to be active too. Walking, gym, road trips...

So yeah. Maybe it's about balance. Being a "party boy/girl" shouldn't be your everything. That's probably a bad sign.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Someone who is in between. Not exactly a party person but not exactly a homebody either since I am one and need someone to get me out every now and then.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

More towards the homebody is the better long term fit.

Party people may be fun in the moment and for a short term thing may be all right. Long term though, intimacy, having a family, being loyal, dependable, trustworthy, entrusting your secrets with, building and sharing assets together, being fully exclusive... party people aren't the best to depend on and put your full trust in and to share your life with for decades and raise a family with.

People focused solely on "fun" all the time aren't wise.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

I think its a case of , you fck the party person , but for a relationship the homebody for the most part is far better , and realistic..

Party individuals are always hiding something , and its " Ohh , you know , I never do like this ever before " ... yeah right.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I prefer women who are comfortable at home, but I also want a woman who will venture out with me on a Friday or Saturday night.

AviatorTom · Answer

I prefer a mix. Someone who is comfortable bring wild and crazy, sometimes, while also bring comfirtable staying at home and relaxing.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

I like quieter times together so I'd always go for the homebody, but preferably one who might enjoy the occasional party. I don't usually like going out and partying. I'm more into simple fun activities to create moments together. It's just more meaningful to me. BUT - I suppose if the right group is going to a party I might consider going and hopefully he would, too :)

DizzyDesii · Answer

Homebody 100%. I dont like to go out weekly but when i do go out monthly, its certainly not to party. I’d be into a guy who wants to go out to a restaurant, movie, sporting event, library, casino, theme park or on a road trip. But im not interested in the partying/clubbing type

egarcia1360 · Answer

A balance is good, realistically, but between the two, the homebody wins every time. I'm more into date nights or maybe small gatherings than big parties myself, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who's out all the time, as that all but inevitably leads to a host of issues. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I like someone in between.. staying in all the time gets boring but I also wouldn't want a guy who constantly needs to go out and party, since they tend to be whores..

WhitneySnow · Answer

Homebody, I guess. I’m sort of an introvert myself, so I probably wouldn’t be happy in the long run with a serious party person.

alice55 · Answer

I prefer dating extroverted as I'm introverted they're ways easier to talk to than introverted but I'm not a fan of party (I actually never went to one).

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I'm more of a homebody, but I do enjoy being social with my friends as well.  I would love to be with someone who would like to do things together, but also enjoy being home as well.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Im a party person myself so I would rather date someone I can take with me.

But Im not into the stereotypical party girl that goes home with a different guy every weekend

So I would say my ideal is “everything in moderation”

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Why are you using two extremes? Just because a person is normal and likes to go out to socialize doesn't make them a party animal. Grow up you're in your mid thirties

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I'll fuck the party person, but I'd be more likely to consider a long-term relationship with the homebody... assuming they're both hawt of course.

LeatherDame · Answer

I’m pretty much a homebody outside of the events I help organize so am probably better paired with another homebody unless they’re content going out without me

Orion84 · Answer

Given those choices? The homebody, every time. I avoid party girls like the plague.

Pupweb · Answer

A mix of both… sometimes extroverts can be a bit much for me to handle.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

The homebody, specifically a gamer who's also an artist and science geek and anime/cartoon enthusiast and sci-fi and fantasy nerd and is a cosplayer.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Probably somebody in-between.. But definitely not a party girl.. I'm a homebody, but would like to go out and do stuff as well.. Like Skydiving or hiking, or a date night..

yourpalval · Answer

a homebody who can handle himself at the club even if he ain't like it cuz fr im startin to think xtroverts are overrated y'all

MoonFace2 · Answer

It used to be the party guy. Now, I prefer the homebody

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

I love party guys, blacking out not so much, morning fck me who is this smh

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

The middle ground person since I’m the same way. I like going out but also love chilling at home.

godfatherfan · Answer

i am way too old to want anything to do with the party person. I am in bed at 9pm sometimes.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I do not wish to date any woman who drinks alcohol. So that would eliminate most "party people."re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Emmytexrex · Answer

I like someone a little in between I don't like going to partys but I like going out to different places so yh the person should be outgoing person but not a party person if you understand what I mean

Iron_Man · Answer

I like to date women that don’t stay in the house 24 hours a day I want them to go out and do things in the community and do activities not night clubs but normal healthy good activities

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m a party girl and I like to be with someone outgoing 💃

Anonymous · Answer

It's not based on a party person or a homebody it's all based on the chemistry in the connection 2 people have together physically and mentally not based on if your person's a homebody or a person that's a party animal

paledreams · Answer

Half and half ;) ♀️ pale petite 20s woman who's cute and not bubbly, just cute and cool

Peggy01 · Answer

In mix I like her and I go out not be hermits. And I like small get togethers.

Jow00 · Answer

I am very in the middle myself, enjoying both social time out with friends and time alone at home. I think I'd like someone similar who can enjoy both with me.

Staximus · Answer

I'm over all that party and bullshit bullshit

art84 · Answer

Homebody for sure, I don't like parties when it comes to dancing, drinking and socializing.

LiamJHayden · Answer

She falls somewhere in between Levis and Vogue magazine.  Let's see if anyone gets it.

Peggy01 · Answer

In mix I like her and I go out not be hermits. And I like small get togethers.

David5668 · Answer

Homeboy, cuddled together. Nothing could be more perfect for me.

MrTaboo · Answer

Homebody. they're more prone to be homemakers.

Chloe1225 · Answer

I like both their times need to get out and let loose.

shortster · Answer

Homebody, unless they are game night types of parties.

Anonymous · Answer

The girl better be street if she lookin at me.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Homebody 150%. I detest party animals. I’m too old for that shit

Nikki1989 · Answer

I prefer the outgoing type.

periodicelement · Answer

Party person, we only live once

sage2021 · Answer

Definitely the homeboy as I am one myself.

Anonymous · Answer

Whatever he’s into I guess, but I don’t like loud music.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’m a homebody. So the answer is obvious

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Homebody. I'm awkward at parties.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Homebody because that’s who I am

animesenpai · Answer

Too much of either is bad

MannMitAntworten · Answer

If those were my lone options, the homebody.

exitseven · Answer

I would like to dste the party person.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Homebody. I'm not a party person at all

Mia2004 · Answer

I’m out going I like small parties though.

Luopio27 · Answer

Im black so I'll pick the home girl!

Jay-_- · Answer

Definitely a homebody

smashleyy · Answer

Homebody 100%

Chase_1234 · Answer

Idc as long as they treat me good

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Definitely the homebody

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

HOMEBOY DEFINITELY

Garud · Answer

homebody

Valdemort · Answer

Homebody, 1000%

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