I told him to block me if he's hurt due to me and he blocked me immediately. Why?

[Anonymous]

[Account]

Because you instructed him so. I would have done the same. You told him if he is hurt by you to block you. He was hurt therefore he blocked you. I don't know what you are asking because the answer is clear.

[Asker]

Why shouldn't he tell me that he's hurt but block me? What can I do if I want him not to feel hurt anymore?

[Account]

But you told him to block you, girl. I mean you asked it you didn't tell him to communicate it to you.

[Asker]

I said him to stay as my friend when he told me that he's in love with me. He blocked me after I said him that if he's heartbroken he will block me. And he did immediately. I said him sorry through other way and he blocked me there too. What should I do? I know he's in a heartbreak. He seems like he doesn't unblock me unless I say him that I love him too. But I don't feel easy to say that to him while he blocked me in two ways. He kept a 3rd way open where he's expecting me to say him that I love him. I'll only say that to him if he unblocks me through two way that he did before. But I don't want to ask him to unblock me but he should do it by himself if he loves me and wants to be with me. Are my thoughts realistic?

[Account]

Look, I am logical when it comes to such things. He can't bear being your friend if he sees you in a romantic way. That cannot change in most cases. Telling him that you love him would be like stringing him along which is wrong because he will harbor hopes. The only male friends that I have are the ones with whom nothing romantic went on from both sides. If romance came up from any side, we could no longer be friends.

[Asker]

After he blocked me I regret why didn't I say ok to his love because loving him doesn't feel as bad as being blocked. Now I changed my decision to say ok to him but I guess it's too late. What's your suggestions on this?

[Account]

I disagree because you are not in love with him however you want to people-please which means putting his needs before your own. I think you should move on.

[Asker]

Love can happen anytime right? If we choose to love, we will start loving the other person. If we choose not to love, we won't love them.

[Account]

Do what you want. I am sorry but what you are saying makes no sense to me. You didn't like him romantically, you rejected him, he blocked you and then you decided to like him romantically?

[Asker]

I didn't wanted to feel bad by getting blocked. So I guessed loving him maybe better than being blocked by him. But a guy who blocks a girl simply because he's hurt never deserve to be with her

[Abbycado]

Uh, because you told him to if he was hurt. Wtf...

[Asker]

I told him if he loves me and if he's hurt, then to block me. He did. Why?

[Agape93]

... you literally told him to

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Anonymous]

You asked for it.