Why are people more comfortable with an insanely big height difference than that isn't?

I'm a 5'4 man and it amazes me that not a single woman is more comfortable seeing eye to eye with me but would rather be eye level with a guys belly button/stomach area with a tall guy (especially you ladies under 5'5, you hate to be eye level with men despite not even being that big whatsoever). Ironically, a lot of tall women actually don't like to feel towered over by a 4'11 woman would not want a guy below like 6'5 I don't get it

Why are people more comfortable with an insanely big height difference than that isn't?
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