Found the guy who's the greenest flag I could ever wish for, and I run away from him. Do you think it's okay to reach out to him and apologize?

[Anonymous]

A met a guy online that's really down for the chase. The greenest flag I ever met. He validates my feelings, patient, understanding, funny, loyal, gift-giving, consistent, gives me all his time and attention, accepting my imperfections but I pushed him away since I came from a toxic relationship, I was dumb, Do you think it will be okay to reach out to him and apologize?

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely!! I think you should!!
Sneak into his bedroom one night, get naked, gently slip into bed with him, softly pick up his arm and drape it over you and gently snuggle into him. If he wakes up, give him a sweet smile, kiss him softly and say, "I was a fool. I love you. Will you accept my apology?" If he doesn't, start a pillow fight with him.

[Asker]

hahahaha 🤣

[GoodEnoughThen]

Sure, no big deal. Just tell him you're sorry, that you had a panic moment. Invite him to come back, then leave the ball in his court.

[Asker]

thank youuu

[GoodEnoughThen]

If he is as green as green flaggy as you say, he'll be totally understanding it and be delighted that he got a second chance. Good luck.

[Asker]

that is so sweet of you, thank you, I appreciate it

[aquamoon]

Definitely reach out to him. The worst that can happen is he doesn't want you back, but at least you'll know and won't be wondering, what if I had said something. And if he's as nice as you say, even if he had moved on from you, he will be nice in the rejection.

[Asker]

thank youuuu

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I'd say F the rules! Just do it girl. 😄😊👍 Nothing wrong with a casual reaching out message. You will have a peace of mind also.

[Asker]

thank youuu that's encouraging 🙏🥳

[LukeAurelin]

If he is the green forest as you say he is the approaching him is the best way of getting him back

[Asker]

thank you

[IslaTheWitch]

you can always reach out... but no one can predict the output

[Emmytexrex]

Hmmm 🤔 just trying reaching out to him well it might be too late though he might hemave moved on so just try and see his response before you explain why you did that

[Asker]

thank youuuu

[Alex-Snow]

I would. You won't know until you try. Were you sexually involved with him?

[Asker]

no hahaha he respects that I was still uncomfortable with it

[Alex-Snow]

Well give him a call or text and see how it goes. Is he around your age?

[Asker]

i will try to text him first, and yes he's around my age

[Alex-Snow]

Good plan. Could he possible see you for Thanksgiving?

[Asker]

ah he's in the east side of the world and I am in the west hahaha

[Alex-Snow]

I guess that is why you have not had sex with him yet!

[Asker]

hey! hahahaha, he subtle told me he wanted to meet me a couple of times but i kept rejecting him before 🤣

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe try a video chat with him and see how that goes?

[Asker]

im kind of shy, maybe a text first haha

[Alex-Snow]

Sounds good

[Asker]

thanks alex, hahaha

[Alex-Snow]

Message me if u ever want to chat about it or anything else.

[Asker]

aww that is so nice of you, thanksss

[Nikki1989]

Yes, that wouldn't hurt.

[Asker]

thank you

[DannyUk2017]

You forgot to say "finacial stable" 😉

[Asker]

hahahaha yeah, he's financially stable hahaha

[DannyUk2017]

😂😂😂😅

[KrakenAttackin]

NO. You will destroy him with your addiction to toxicity. Let him find a good woman who won't crush him.

[KrakenAttackin]

Leave this poor guy alone.

[Chthou95]

You could try. But if he rejects you, accept it & move on

[Anonymous]

No. Leave him alone. You will only destroy a good man. Assuming he is actually a good man and this isn't just another one of your bad choices.

[kaucky1]

Should ask a pendulum find your answer one way or the other

[RingOfFire]

Of course! Why not?

[Anonymous]

That’s a good idea

[shades777]

Hey you get whatever comes your way.

[Danny_dan92]

You need some self reflection

[Anonymous]

U feel bad for him u don’t like him

[Asker]

i do feel bad for my behavior but i actually like him, i just got scared if it will work for the both of us :( i was a coward

[Opinion Owner]

Why do u like him

[Asker]

i honestly like everything about him, including his imperfections

[Opinion Owner]

Imperfections like?

[Opinion Owner]

U are just using him for attention. If they really were your dream girl or guy you wouldn’t have rejected them in the first place

[Asker]

what do you even know? You didn't know anything about what I've been through girl, but thanks.

[Anonymous]

Marry him

[Asker]

hahaha this made me laugh, we haven't get back or anything yetttt

[Anonymous]

Leave him alone.

[Opinion Owner]

Commented on the wrong post. My b