Should I apologise to him?

[Anonymous]

I saw one of my colleagues out last night. We are both close and flirty towards each other and I have a huge crush on him. I had suspected that he felt the same way, and last night I basically forced him to admit it and we had a bit of a kiss. Although I believe he wouldn’t have kissed me if he didn’t feel the same way, I don’t think I should have did that to him. Should I apologise? Would it make him like me again?

[spartan55]

'basically forced him to admit it'... wouldn't it be fun to reverse genders on this one? Dude would be in jail, and don't even know if you should apologize... wow, you are gross.

[Asker]

Says the middle aged “man” who hides behind a screen and bullies people every day. What a wonderful human being you are.

[spartan55]

Yeah, not bullying anyone. Everyday? Yeah right. What a poor attempt at blame shifting on your part. Nothing I said is untrue and you know it.

[Asker]

But why do you have to be so aggressive with it? I apologised to him but I was just wondering if I seemed over the top by apologising.

[spartan55]

You didn't say you apologized. You asked if you should apologize. Now your story is changing.

[Asker]

Yeah, I asked the question because I was contemplating it. Someone replied saying I should, so I did.

[spartan55]

I'm trying to figure out why you would not apologize.

[Asker]

I did, several times

[spartan55]

After several opinions recommended you should.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... he's not wrong.

[Summeroflove]

Does he seem angry at you? I mean all in all if you feel bad or like you did sometjijt that upset him. Apologize

[Alex-Snow]

You did nothing wrong

[Jamie05rhs]

Apologize for what? I see no issues here.

[californianjoe]

You should definitely apologize grandma

[Asker]

Shut up you little snowflake

[laly520]

yes apologize

[ZameerAS]

Yeah you should