Do you think this is a genuine apology from a man who spin in my face as teens?

[Anonymous]

I told him to choke on glass

he said “damn what i do”

I told him he knows what he did in 8th grade

then he said this “

His apology

“Well I don’t remember but I apologize for the way you are feeling and I never meant to hurt you I’m truly sorry for any trauma that I might have caused you. I hope that you can forgive me but I understand if you don’t want to”

[MannMitAntworten]

8th Grade, eh? 7th & 8th Grade is when kids torture one another the most. Probably hard to keep up with all the torment done to one another if he was one of those kids. I happened upon both guys and girls who forgot the crap they did i. Those days as well some even forgetting high school stuff. Totally different individuals as adults. Wild thing is some remember us being complete “chums”
And me thinking, “ I kicked your ass for a reason - fucker.” Regardless, I let it go and just played nice as if their annoyances never occurred. Why hold onto bullshit childhood nonsense I figure.


Yeah, just forget about it. I believe he really does not remember.

[spartan55]

@asker how do you know he 'didn't try to remember'... 🙄 that is speculation, not fact.

[exitseven]

Sounds pretty genuine to me. A lot of people have regrets over stupid things they did when they were kids.

[Asker]

Should I date him

[exitseven]

can you get past the spitting in your face?

[Asker]

He didn’t try to remember that he spit in my face so I don't know maybe not

[exitseven]

maybe he spit in everyones face.
I had an uncle who said that when he was a kid there was a girl in the neighborhood that he liked He hid behind a tree and threw rocks at her. Maybe it was like that.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No, that’s a saving face apology. He didn’t acknowledge his actions, only how you felt. He didn’t own up to anything.

[spartan55]

You caught the part that this happened in eighth grade, right?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah I don't know why she asked for an apology for that over a decade later

[spartan55]

She is totally twisting everything to fit her narrative. She says he didn't remember the incident which is 100% plausible. But then she doubles down and rips his apology? Wtf? Then she claims he 'didn't even try to remember' the incident. Okay, that is such bullshit. There's no way she could know that.

[Asker]

Exactly!

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m not gonna ask my middle school bully for an apology for shit he definitely doesn’t remember doing. They never remember, or care enough to, because I didn’t matter to them then. At most, it would be some half-ass apology, like that, and I know I wouldn’t be satisfied with it so I moved on and stopped thinking about them. Her having a submissive kink is her own deal

[Asker]

A submissive kink? Who’s submissive?

[spartan55]

@asker
'Exactly' what. You said he didn't even 'try to remember' the incident. There is no way you could know that.

[jazzy34]

Can you provide some background? How did he get back in touch with you after so many years? Social media or?

[Asker]

I reached out to him on social media

[WhitneySnow]

It sounds genuine, but it also shows he didn’t care enough to remember that he spit in your face in eighth grade.

[Asker]

Very true…. What should I do

[spartan55]

Remembering something has nothing to do with caring about it... where do you girls come up with this shit.

[qwerty2469]

Yeah.