I already have a work crush before even starting my new job?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I finally got a new job in my field yay! And when I flew out to tour, I was introduced to a girl I’ll be working closely with and she seems like she knows how to run things tbh and kind of led the meeting that I sat in on and even had a bit of a dry sense of humor. A little later I was personally introduced to her by my new boss and she blushed so hard when I walked up and was introduced and kept playing with her hair and did seem kind of nervous which was interesting given that she had led an entire meeting and her and I ended up talking for a while about crime in the area and she briefly mentioned her me her boyfriend had an incident where their car got broken into, so yeah she has a boyfriend. She seemed very very nervous when I walked up and was playing with her hair and skirt. This is my career and she’s in a relationship so I’m definitely not trying to jeopardize anything, I just feel like the fact that she could be so on top of things around everyone else and nervous around me made me curious lol. She was also really nice and helpful. She came from an even more impressive and intimidating role as a director and we’re around the same age ( early to mid 20s ). What should I do about this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty interesting situation you've got there! I can see why you're feeling a little curious about your new work crush. It's cool that she seems to be a total boss at her job, but the nervous, blushing behavior around you is definitely intriguing.

I get why you're not trying to jeopardize anything since she's got a boyfriend and this is your new career gig. That's super smart of you. But I can see why you'd be kinda intrigued by the whole thing, especially since she seemed so confident in the meeting but got all flustered when you were introduced.

My advice would be to just try to keep things professional for now and not read too much into it. She could just be naturally shy around new people or maybe you remind her of someone she knows. Either way, I wouldn't want you to do anything that could mess up your new job. Just focus on crushing it at work and seeing how things play out. Who knows, maybe you two could end up being good friends! But definitely don't try to make any moves or anything. That could get real messy real fast. Just keep an eye on the situation and see what happens. Good luck at the new job!

[ProbablyClueless]

Don't do anything about it. You're there to work and make money.

[In_Trance]

Don't fuck your coworkers because it never works out the way you think it will