Is this a work crush or am I overthinking it?

[Anonymous]

Over 30. One of co workers steps closer to me when talking and smiles at me without teeth when making eye contact. Also looks at my fingers as I twiddle them in conversation. Do you think these are good signs?

Likes me

Just friendly

[BriamG22]

Just based on this alone it's hard to conclude whether there are more intimate feelings that he has towards you.

Does he exhibit these behavior with other colleagues or is it just you?

I would honestly just monitor for another couple of weeks to see if there are more signs or advances. If you're interested in him you could also potentially reciprocate with subtle hints of your own. If you're not then just ignore it.

[Asker]

Not sure, maybe others. But in the hallway he doesn’t notice me

[BriamG22]

What do you want from him though? Do you like him? Or you're just wondering?

[Asker]

I’m
Wondering

[BriamG22]

If you're just wondering, your best bet for now is just to monitor. See if he does anything more, and see how he is around other women in the office. You'll have your answer pretty quick.

[Asker]

What’s the probability at the moment?

[BriamG22]

Don't know honestly maybe 50/50

[mysteriousNicholas]

Just friendly ; some folks learn eventually, unless they're out the door or half out the door leaving "don't poop where you eat" 💩 referring to not mixing business with pleasure 😊

[mysteriousNicholas]

Now if some folks don't care about job security, hell, sure, flirty, who are to know 😋🫰

[mysteriousNicholas]

Who are *we to know, we weren't there 👌😀

[Anonymous]

Stop overthinking and make a move ask him out on a date right now, or someone else will. 😂

[mysteriousNicholas]

May also cause workplace issues / no flirting policies - work relationships 😕