Unpopular opinion: I feel like men have to walk on eggshells when dating because many women take what men say out of context. Agree or disagree?

Question

Watch the ladies overreact in the comments by referring to me as a man because I point out many negative flaws within our community. Lol prove my point everytime.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I know I agree. Sometimes I feel like I'm being asked the same question in 3 different ways to see if I contradict myself as if I'm in a police interrogation.

It's connected to the first meeting or what I call the "preliminary questions phase" that some describe as a "Job Interview" but I would describe as more akin to being on trial in court, under oath to testify. If found innocent enough... I may be allowed to proceed.

It's like a backward legal system, where the trial is first, and then it goes to the police interrogation 2nd.

If an established relationship is finally agreed upon, it will then be littered with "shit tests" on a constant search for flaws and weaknesses... like a boot camp. I'll stop here because I've digressed into a rant.

Unpopular opinion: I feel like men have to walk on eggshells when dating because many women take what men say out of context. Agree or disagree?

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

We guys are simple creatures. We say what we mean and mean what we say. Girls often try to read between the lines, to determine what we really mean... which we already told you.

Zack-Bann · Answer

The world is full of insecure people. Men and women, who have abandonment issues, childhood trauma, a general lack of self confidence etc…

These people are the ones who wine and complain and come up with ridiculous absolutes like “don’t EVER tell a woman…”

They think they can cry the system into changing to fit them. They can’t.

But since Im nobody’s father or therapist it’s not my place to go into it with every person who spends the day looking for the next offensive thing

So instead I make it a point to surround myself with men and women who do have self awareness and do hold themselves accountable for their actions, working every day to make better choices.

But since your vibe attracts your tribe: that has to be true for me too in order for these people to want me around as well

Anonymous · Answer

I mean in so many different ways you're so right
But that being said I'm not going to be in a relationship where I have to feel like I'm walking on eggshells I'm either going to change my words around or she's going to know exactly who I am because I don't want to feel that way if you feel that way then that's not a true relationship you should be able to save what you want to say when you want to say it and do it in a respectful way and if you can't do that and you shouldn't even be in that relationship

EmmaMary · Answer

FORUM WARNING GUY IN DISGUISE.

Yannae · Answer

I disagree, but maybe I lucked out with the women I dated. They were reasonable people.

Anonymous · Answer

Thanks for confirming for the 20th time or so you're an obvious man on a fake pink profile

Ariesman81 · Answer

We don't have to... some of us prefer to sweep them up into a handful and jam them down their throats

jahaims · Answer

I don't spent time with people like that. If someone is always trying to twist my words I'd cut them out for being an idiot.

Graptemys79 · Answer

It depends on the woman. If she is levelheaded and sweet, then, no.

NathanDavis · Answer

not a problem I've had to deal with

MrCharlie13 · Answer

Now it's truer than ever

Potteplante · Answer

Disagree.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yup.

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

absolutely true!

Enginn · Answer

Agree to disagree.

eagle1951 · Answer

Agree

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