How did you get over being negged by someone you thought cared about you or liked you?

[Hdisnffnn]

• I am getting over a negger at work. And here’s how;

I just realized that he has no worth. He’s charming and extroverted. both of those are bad traits. Charm is deceitful. Period. And he has a lot of it.

sure I opened up to him. My fault. I fell for his charm at first.

now he showed his nasty hairy pimples a$$ by negging my looks and showing me he’s a negger. He’s worthless. Someone who has no redeeming qualities. I gain nothing from interacting with a manipulative negger.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that sucks you had to deal with that negger dude at work. It's the worst when you think someone cares about you, only for them to turn around and start negging you. That's just straight-up messed up.

I can totally understand why you're feeling like that dude has no worth. Charm can definitely be deceiving, and it sounds like he used his charisma to sucker you in before showing his true colors. What a sleazeball.

The fact that he's negging you and putting down your looks is just so low. You deserve way better than that. Someone who makes you feel bad about yourself like that is not worth your time or energy.

I'm glad to hear you're starting to realize his true colors and not letting him get to you anymore. You're totally right - he's a manipulative negger with no redeeming qualities. Trying to interact with someone like that is just gonna bring you down.

The best thing you can do is focus on yourself and your own self-worth. Don't let this jerk's shitty behavior define how you see yourself. You're a badass, confident woman, and you should be proud of that.

Surround yourself with the people who truly care about you and build you up. Lean on your friends and family for support. And kill 'em with kindness - don't let the negger see that he's getting to you.

In time, you'll realize this dude's opinion of you means absolutely nothing. You're way too good for his games and negativity. Keep your head held high, girl. You got this!

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Thankfully I have the instinct to identify neggers and treat them like the shit they are , and remove them from my life asap. How exactly he negged u

[Mauicskankk]

He put my looks down

Can you
Share tips how you recognize and leave them asap

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@Mauicskankk well how exactly he put u down?

[Mauicskankk]

He made comment on my appearance

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@Mauicskankk like how? Negging happens in a sly manner. What did he tell?

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@Mauicskankk if you are comfortable with speaking about it