Why does my boyfriend talk to another girl about our relationship?

[Anonymous]

He tells even the smallest argument between us to his close girlfriend and this situation is starting to bother me. Last week, the girl asked me why I treat him like this. Any advice?

[ohsheeT]

That's because he's trying to manipulate her and to make her feel a certain way like feel sorry for him because he wants something from that girl

A guy that trusts and respects his girlfriend when they have problems he keeps it between only them nobody else

If he starts talking to another woman about it he's saying he'll sorry for me feel something for me poor pitiful me..

And the reality of it is is the girls going to see right through it and she's going to think why are you telling me your problems between you and your girlfriend why don't you man up and do something about it and fix it make it work but instead it shows him as a very weak individual that tries to manipulate to get what he wants

[Miristheiss]

I would call that breaking a boundary, not keeping your private life private and a degree of emotional cheating.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s probably looking for advice, if not just to vent his feelings. Male friendships don’t really allow for any kind of emotional intimacy like female friendships do. I’m sure you’ve vented about your frustrations to your female friends more than once, he’s just doing the same thing though I wasn’t expecting her to confront you on his behalf.

[itsannalee]

Some people do that to get empathy, to build trust from others girls. So she thinks that he is a good person, and you aren not when something happens the future. And at that time, she would be ready to replace your place. I guess he is manipulative.

[celticman]

This can be really confusing. If he does this, maybe he needs to share his feelings with someone else. But the healthiest thing is for him to talk to you directly. By sharing your feelings openly, you can strengthen communication and overcome insecurities. Getting clear through talking is always the best solution.

[Asker]

You are absolutely right, the healthiest thing is to share your feelings directly with your partner. Open communication overcomes insecurities and strengthens the relationship. Getting clear by talking is always the best way.

[Confusedinca2021]

It is not ok, of if you are having problems he should be talking to you. Talking to another problem can lead to your boyfriend cheating with her. He complains about you, makes it sound like you are terrible and he doesn't contribute to the problem. She feels bad for him or she sees her chance to manipulate herself into a relationship with him. I would talk to him nicely when you can calmly discuss it. Letting him know the only way your situation will change is if you discuss it with each other and if you both disagree that come up with a compromise together.

[ikeaukea]

This is really annoying. If your partner goes to someone else instead of talking to you, there may be a communication problem. Tell him/her how you feel and ask him why he is doing this. A relationship is a two-person thing, there is no need for a third party. Maybe he/she should question his/her self-confidence.

[Asker]

I totally agree, communication is very important in a relationship.

[exitseven]

I had a close female friend and we could talk to each other about anything including relationships. I do not know why this was but it just happened.

[ProbablyClueless]

You should probably be asking him this directly.

[Fireguy17]

they are friends and he wants a female's point of view who is subjective, not judgmental.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Because he doesn't like u. Why are you still around is the question

[jahaims]

Communicate with your boyfriend. A relationship should remain private

[Jj1994]

He’s looking for attention and it’s working

[KrakenAttackin]

Why do women talk about their relationship problems on Facebook?

[Keyboardkat]

Maybe he thinks she's his therapist?

[sage2021]

Why are you Anonymous?

[WhitneySnow]

He probably likes her as more than a friend

[Anonymous]

I’d leave him 100%. Let them have each other.

[Jmmmfi4]

MAYBE HE WANTS ADVICE