Why does my boyfriend talk to other girls?

[Canadian21]

He's been my best friend for 5 years and we recently decided to get together, and I thought everything was great, we both have security issues, and he went through my phone so I thought it was only fair I went through his, I found that he sent a picture of His manly parts to other girls. I however had nothing to hide. He talks to at least 3 other girls when I'm not around, and now hides his phone, when I ask who he's talking to he says its someone else when its not. I'm just so confused on what to do?

[themastaplan]

he shouldn't have anything to hide if he isn't doing anything wrong...now on the other hand I do believe in having friends of the opposite sex...but sending them pictures of you cock...i mean um he's dating you...and what guy sends pics of their cock...i mean I love the unexpected part of hooking up, the girl has to wait to see you, see what your about, as I do with her body...he seems like he's immature for his age if he's between 25-29...or that he's not quiet ready to settle down...ask him how he would take it if some dude sent you a pic of their cock...that way he can see how you are upset...he seems like he's taking your for granted and you deserve better...

try to think of yourself here, what you want in a guy and what you believe a boyfriend should be about...maybe make a list of pro's/con's of being with him...do you really want to be insecure with him...this could ruin future relationships as well...really think about what's going on

[martyfellow]

If he starts OUT telling this MANY lies, I hate to think what he'll be doing in a few weeks. This sounds like some sort of record for cheating actually.

Cut him loose Canadian. May as well have an affair with someone married, at least you know where you stand.

I'm not available, sorry. Too bad, I love Canadians.

[Fourkaitlyn]

Well I do believe that smart thing to do is dump his ass. I mean really now do you want a "man" (he obviously isn't a true man to be doing this to you) who's sending pics of his d*** to OTHER girls? I hope you say know. Your boyfriend is a douche for doing that and he's not going to stop unless you sit him down and bitch at him for it. If he's checing YOUR phone for these kinds of things while he's doing them himself, you do know the song, I should've cheated right? because your situation is in that song. Lol. Break up with his ass and find a GOOD TRUSTING MAN.

[Memoryfalls]

Forget about him...srsly, he is suspects you when he himself is doing it!?!? Someone needs a reality check here...next time

[SmileSmile]

You've known him for 5 years. Guess you don't know him well enough. :/

[authentic]

Ask him, "if knowing me for 5 years as a friend still isn't enough for you to trust me, how long would it take, 50 years?" If he says, "I don't know". Then tell him all two have (and can have), is a best-friend relationship. He is having problems trusting his own judgement. His cure is to learn to 1. listen to, 2. trust his gut feelings. Like learning to walk, it takes time.

[overseas2009]

ok well I was just in the same situation and personaly I think people like us deserve people who don't lie or hide things from us but the whole manly part pic sent that's a big no no I would have left him right there but before it gets to bad or awkward you should just try to get back to the friend statues

[HaroldO]

Confused? Dumping him seems a very interesting option. The guys sends pictures of his junk to other girls, geez.

[TessAshwin]

he is a player. if you really like him you need deal with his player qualities.

otherwise buzz off.

[freefall7]

You should send pictures of your girly parts to me!

[Anonymous]

He is a player, he likes to paly the field, he likes the attention, sex, etc...boys will be boys accept him as he is or find someone else

[Anonymous]

he's a cheating ass, that's why. he acts suspicious of you because he knows he's doing dirt. doesn't seem like he's gonna stop...you should leave him

[Anonymous]

he's using you for sex, capitalizing on your friendship and probably cheating on you. harsh but most likely true.

[kornholio]

Those are his backups, if not his booty calls when you're not giving it to him, without a doubt...

[Littletad]

Doesn't really sound like a keeper does he?

[Anonymous]

Hes a player, deal with it...

[Tphilly187]

SURPIRSE not the guy you though he was

[Typenamehere]

He is definately cheating on you..