me & this guy guy been dating for 9 months. I met a lot of his fam & his closest friends. they love me. during school we weren't together that often and we liked each other way more than we do now. summertime came we were together everyday. I didn't see him for 3 days he complained that we didn't hang out anymore & I was too busy for him. he used to text me first soon I had to text him although he would always call me first. he will NOT make us official and he is not great at sharing how he feels. && he has told mostly the truth since day one. if I ask him if he misses me and he doesn't he says nope. I ask if he still like me he says yes. he has said I love you or I care about you in his own little way many times. but I feel as though he doesn't mean it. sometimes his actions show it sometimes it doesn't. lately he has days where he wants to cuddle and just chill with me but some days he doesn't want to kiss me during sex. its strange.plus I've been paying for almost everything since day one because his fam doesn't have that much money and he sometimes pays for things like the water bill. he has bout me earrings although I never excepted them and chocolate covered strawberries on valentines day which we spent the day and the night before together and that day. he said that was the best v day he had given to anyone. also when I go out with him he jokes he doesn't want to see people he knows. when he does he introduces me as a friend and when people ask am I his girlfriend he says no. what is his problem. he acts concerned and ask do I get mad when he says stuff like that and he claims the reason he doesn't ell anyone about us is because he doesn't like people in his business. he gets mad when I talk about other guys but sees no prob when he talks about other girls. his boyfriend knows about me and recently came back from being away at college. could his best friend have changed his mind about me at all?i also offer to get food for his fam when we get food.
and when I ask him about becoming my boyfriend he says it will happen but when the time is right which sounds lk bull ish.