How do you feel if an an ugly guy dumps you for an ugly girl over you when you're a beautiful girl?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

This kind of sounds like a puppy love but.

Everybody sees beauty in different ways a lot of people are just focused on what a person looks like when they're trying to pick up on them or get with them

And when they get together they forgot one important thing they forgot to find out who the person was on the inside first because that's what true beauty really comes from the outside is just all an extra bonu

But if you are hurt or you're sad because you are going out with a guy and he dumped you for somebody else you have to understand something first of all it was for a reason

And you have to understand that it's for a positive reason and if you're talking about you it's because that guy was not meant for you even though you thought he was probably your soulmate he wasn't everything in this world happens for a reason and in love we are all programmed to be hurt or to feel pain or to lock ourselves in our room and not eat and supper to feel misery when this happens well that's society's b******* you have to look at things different because they are you can ask anybody in this world that has their heart broken before did it hurt

Yes it hurt
How long did it take you to get over it a long time
What's the positives and the negatives from it the negatives were it hurt the positives are I'm glad that it happened because I'm in this relationship that I'm in now that is just wonderful

And everybody in the world will sell say the same thing they are glad that it happened because where they are now

I don't really like to say what I'm going to say but it's the truth and you need to know it to protect yourself but it's going to happen again probably and again and then probably again until you find that right person because when you're young it's just exciting to be in that moment with a partner with somebody that you can say you like or love..
And when were that age we all think that we're grown up and that we all know what we're doing and we all know what love is but we don't that's just the bottom line we don't

There are many different levels of love and commitment and the thing is is what you have to understand just because you love the depth that you love doesn't mean the guy that you're with loves you the same depth or understands love the same way you do

I'm sorry that you had to go through this it's a learning experience and I like I said I hate saying it but I almost guarantee it that your next relationship will fail to our end just because of the age and it takes two people to make something work and trying to get two people on the same page all the time it's just kind of hard to do when you're young even when you're old but

You are the only person on the inside of you you're the only person in life that can make you happy or sad nobody else again that guy could do something to make you upset but you're the only person that can control the inside of you your emotions so smile go look at yourself in the mirror smile it will happen again guaranteed just protect your heart a little bit and learn from it because each time it happens it's a learning experience setting you up for the next time that it happens each time will become better and better you have to just truly understand who you are truly understand this love is it's a 100 100 type deal everybody says it's 50/50 it's not it's more than that because you have to give more sometimes than the other person and then you don't even know if the other person is going to give you 50% anyway so it's it's just a it's a thing that you have to grow with and to understand but don't be sad don't beat yourself up and it doesn't matter if the girls ugly or beautiful it just doesn't matter what matters is that he did it and you did everything possible to keep your love towards him that's all you can that's all anybody could ask for so like I said don't be sad there's 150 billion guys out there and don't worry about anybody's beauty except for your own and I'm just remember beauty comes from the inside the guy that truly falls in love with you he's going to love you from the inside out and I can feel you have a beautiful heart so that's going to be kind of easy

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Esthetically you might look beautiful, but your personality is more than likely what is ugly. That’s why he broke up w you. She may not be as good looking but she probably treats him better. Part of me feels as though you treat him like trash because of your beauty. Maybe I’m wrong.

Account · Accepted Answer

I would be fine with it. People are allowed to make their own choices.
What seems ugly to you might seem pretty to him.
If he dumped me because he found someone else attractive, he actually did me a favor instead of cheating on me and going behind my back.

BeeNee · Accepted Answer

Being considered pretty does not mean you are a prime catch if you're a rude, awful person to begin with. Looks can't save that, so maybe "ugly guy" went off and found someone who treats him well and doesn't refer to him as ugly to begin with.

Zack-Bann · Answer

If I think my partner is ugly and I say nothing and do nothing it speaks volumes to my character and it’s not a good look

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. And if I don’t see beauty in my partner I would end the relationship myself

So we wouldn’t even get to the point where Im being dumped for someone uglier

My ex, who was pretty, broke up with me and a year later is now dating a guy that is a lot uglier. She doesn’t see him that way and Im happy that she’s happy
And it’s kindof a flex knowing that she downgraded instead of upgraded (even if in her mind it’s probably an upgrade)

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I wouldn't care.. On to better looking guys with better morals and personality lol

danielle872024 · Answer

If the person was happy with that girl \guy I say let them be.

12karen · Answer

I wouldn't care, I mean if he's that ugly, and that I'm beautiful, it's a win for me. Ugly x ugly  Beautiful x beautiful  Everyone gets happy

michalpl00 · Answer

Looks are not everything. Looks for fun. Personality for wife. If you got both you are gold

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Sad. But only because he broke up. It doesn't matter if people find him ugly, or who he left me for. A breakup would make me sad.

RingOfFire · Answer

Last time that happened to me I have to admit I felt pretty bad about it. 😃

MrPiercedD · Answer

Ugly and beautiful are very subjective.

As an example, a lot of guys finds fake boobs, fake lips, fake ass, etc as ugly and disgusting. For me that are things which I desire in a girl. Do for me she will be incredibly sexy, hot and beautiful but for other guys and many girls she will be (at best) ugly.

tzdc21 · Answer

Well I would tell you, but I'm not a girl lol.

glennos89 · Answer

Why would you even want a ugly guy in the first place?

MoonFace2 · Answer

It’s no big deal. I was probably going to dump him anyway, for being ugly.

Chelsdope0 · Answer

I was dumped for a beautiful trans woman so.. hey..

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Nothing! Because that's why they are called "leagues"... hence the phrase..."she out of my league"...🤷‍♂️

LiamJHayden · Answer

For a lot of us inner beauty is far more important than outer beauty.

stephanie-ramos · Answer

Young women think men stay because they’re hot lol no….

Anonymous · Answer

beauty is in the eye of the beholder. just because you think she's ugly, it doesn't mean he thinks she is ugly.  I have been called ugly and pretty at the same time by different people.

Anonymous · Answer

It means you are not that special to him 😔 Women alway think thay ex’s new girlfriend always worse than them 🤔 kinda delusional tho.

Anonymous · Answer

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But I would guess he found her personality more beautiful...

Anonymous · Answer

He probably values substance over appearance. Or, maybe pretty is just a bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

He wasn’t ugly when you dated him huh?🥲

es20490446e · Answer

Their lost. They don't know any better.

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Personally counts 😀

Darklydarkened · Answer

It's almost as if, looks aren't everything

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Has never happened to me.

Kelley1 · Answer

Delusional

Jj1994 · Answer

His loss

samsniffies · Answer

I'd bang his friends if I were you.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Men = scumbag

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