How do you feel if you boyfriend out of sudden ditched you for an ugly girl and married her even when you're gorgeous than her?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

You know all you can do is accept it and think about it like this he did this because he's selfish he did this because if he truly truly loved you he would be with you and you can't make somebody love you because if you make them that means it's fake they have to love you on their own so I would thank him because the first part of your relationship when he was with you it was fake he was using you until something better came along so thank him for doing it right now instead of waiting 5 years and then breaking your heart then what he did it's not about that he broke up with you and went out with somebody else but it's about is him showing you who he truly really is in life you have to thank him for that because he's a jackass he's a user and you have to thank him for showing you that and picking that other girl because you don't ever want to be a person like that that's the positive out of the whole thing you have to look at it positive and negative and he showed his true colors and here's what is going to happen is somewhere down the road he's going to find somebody else and go after them and break up with that girl or he's going to go out with another girl the girl that he's with right now will find out and tell him to get the f*** out and he will have no place to go so guess who he's coming back to you and guess what you can say f*** you get the f*** out treat him the same way he treated you do not allow him to come back because he will just hurt you again and again thank him believe me thank him for showing you what a jackass he is I don't care how much you love him he didn't love you you need to have more confidence in yourself and love yourself and understand you can get any guy that you want to you have to understand that don't want somebody that doesn't want you that's not right and that's what most girls do they find and they cry they hurt they say they're in pain because they want somebody that doesn't want them forget that you're better than that quit selling yourself short

[MrOracle]

Looks not only aren't everything, they are much less important to a committed, long-term relationship than are morals, values, and life goals. Looks won't give someone a free pass to be low value in other areas, at least not long-term. It may work that way in the short-term, but usually those people don't take the relationship seriously anyway, and aren't looking for anything long-term.

[EmmaMary]

Sounds very much like you've had the narrowest of escapes from such a juvenile lowlife... You need to now try putting this down to experience, picking yourself up and moving on with your life... Wishing you all good luck for your future happiness. xxx

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Asker]

I didn't pick MHO. The question isn't my situation even. It's about some other girl. I'm willing to know how other girls feel if they're in her situation.

[Asker]

GAG picked your opinion as MHO.

[EmmaMary]

I do know and realise this... But thank you anyway.

[FlaffyCheez]

He just wanted what he wanted and it sadly wasn't you. If she ugly she ugly, but maybe he really like ugly. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Finchie40]

Lied to and betrayed and I would also feel like what did I do to deserve that? Was it me or was it her? But the truth is someone’s looks don’t justify someone’s heart , just because someone looks beautiful on the outside it doesn’t mean they are beautiful in the inside , , so by him choosing a less attractive girl , was probably because she treated him better than you did

[Asker]

This isn't my situation.

[Finchie40]

Then your ex is mentally insane , or you just find her ugly but to him she is not , beauty comes from the eye of the beholder

[Asker]

Yeah, he's insane.

[Asker]

He isn't my ex

[Finchie40]

What do you mean he isn’t your ex? Didn’t he leave you for another girl?

[Asker]

No, he isn't my ex

[Finchie40]

Was he just a friend

[Unit1]

Debatable. There are pinks, who posted a picture of a beautiful Filipino girl and the question asker called her "fugly" while they themselves claimed to be so much prettier.

Other than that it could be personality or compatibility or values or other things.

[Anonymous]

Looks are by far the most important thing when you start dating somebody, but for the relationship it is the least important thing. And when it comes time to break up with somebody if you don't get along with them, they could be the hottest person in the world and it doesn't mean shit

[slatyb]

You think "Maybe I need an attitude adjustment". Maybe she's generous and loving while you are transactional and withholding. Listen to Lyle Lovett's "I Married Her Just Because She Looks Like You" and see if it applies.

[Nikki1989]

Live and learn. Men AND women need to know how to move on. It is really not complicated.

[Asker]

You'll move on without confronting him?

[Zack-Bann]

Anyone who’s even remotely “gorgeous” doesn’t use the anon option on this app


Sorry bit Im not buying the premise itself

[Asker]

You assume wrong

[the29thhuman]

I’d feel so grateful to not be with someone so pathetic as he is

[Anonymous]

I would assume they had better personality traits. Like being easy going, selfless, non-abusive, happy, etc...

[Asker]

This isn't always the situation. Sometimes men make bad choices. They gotta live with it after they choose. He shouldn't come back to the better girl he left.

[Opinion Owner]

Exceptions exist, of course. I just wouldn't advise someone to assume the exception.

And also, separate from all of this, guys can leave for reasons he will never communicate. Like, I left a girl because she had poor intimate hygiene. And she was 10/10 beautiful. Guys are weird like that sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Did you ever stop to think that there could be more to a woman than beauty?

[Jmmmfi4]

DAMN THAT SUCKS

[Crazzyyworld]

Well he likes anal sex I would think