I need dating advice?

[MLGbreezy]

I just think that I don’t get dating on a very fundamental level so I’d like advice to get better if at all possible. I know that something I need to improve on are my attachment issues I’m clingy to a fault and have a hard time letting go. I have a stubborn personality giving up isn’t really in my nature it’s why I’m still here at all but in dating that doesn’t seem to be a good thing so I need help.

[Juxtapose]

First advice:

Don't take advice about this from women. They really don't know what it's like to be a man and if you don't believe me, look at the women who transition into being a transsexual man. They are fucking miserable!

Second advice:

Find someone who shares your belief system and hobbies.

Third advice:

Don't use dating apps unless you have skin of steel because you are going to feel utterly undesirable and ignored otherwise.

[Abbycado]

What do you need advice on?

[MLGbreezy]

Everything

[MLGbreezy]

I think from the moment I got into dating I just didn’t gel well with how things are done. When you see and hear about people giving good dating advice I always hear about how communication is key and treating a woman right is top priority this that and the third

[MLGbreezy]

And I feel like the opposite is true 99.9% of the time when a problem arise or you fuck up no one wants to communicate they’d people would sooner ignore you or block you rather then talk things out which is something I’d go above and beyond to try to do

[MLGbreezy]

I feel so confused i don’t know what girls want I don’t know what they like I thought I did but I don’t and now I’m questioning everything

[Abbycado]

What girls “want” is very dependent on the girl. I’m in college. I’m just looking for (and found) a guy that has similar goals and values.

We get along famously for the months we’ve been together. He treats me with respect. He’s sweet.

Here is another thing. He doesn’t smother me or get jealous of me wanting to go out with the girls. We can do our own thing and be fine.

@Agape93 right?

[Agape93]

Exactly. I want loyalty, love and an equal partnership. I'm easy af to please.

[Abbycado]

@Agape93 agreed

[MLGbreezy]

All things I’ve heard time and again yet put in to practice it never seems to go that way

[Agape93]

Sounds like it's you then. Just because you think you're doing it, doesn't mean you actually are, or that she's receptive to what we said. We are all different