Does slow and steady really win the race in relationships?

[SmileyLady]

[bowenw]

In my experience it does. Getting to know someone over a period of many months or longer especially when you aren't in a relationship with them, like a coworker, seems to be best. That way you can see what they are really like when they aren't trying to impress you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[ProbablyClueless]

Yup. When it comes to a longer term relationship, something that feels like the right kind of boring is more desirable than excitement.

[Cute_User513]

Yes! Going slowly can make sure you can slowly solve any problems and that everyone feels comfortable

[exitseven]

it has worked for me.

[strateguy632]

It does

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely