In real life what do guys honestly think about dating single mothers?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

I'm single right now and before when I was single you have to be in a mindset and understand that when you date a mother that her child is the one that comes first and that's the only way that I would have it I've dated mothers before and where her children might be asking her something and she would snap or something to say hey can't you see I'm talking blah blah blah whatever and I would look at her and say wait a minute they're asking you a question you can take the time and answer them they're being kids they're curious they come first not me so don't ever think that I want that heard that I need that because I don't I said as a matter of fact you kind of pissed me off a little bit that you did that

If I really like the girl and she's married I will date her and I do understand that her kids come first that's the only way it can happen anyway otherwise I'm not going to be a part of it

[Anonymous]

Of course they do. They're human beings with hope, dreams and aspirations same as us. But that's where we wise up! She didn't become a single mom by accident. And ANY GUY with any experience with women know they're NOT victims. Though many will play that card looking to exploit a guy. Because these women understand what makes a guy tick. We're natural problem solvers that want to help women.

Guys want to believe she's just had a bad run of it. But that is almost never the case.

So to a swer your question is yes, men think about dating single mothers. Then we remember the lessons life has taught and look at her with a very hard eye to inevitably learn WHY she's a single mom. Then once we learn the true reason we run.

[Nikki1989]

I have found it is always the very immature and insecure men that tend to have issues with it.

[slatyb]

I had no problem with it when I was a single father.

[Danny_dan92]

That kid’s dad better be dead, in prison or completely non existent in her life.




Otherwise it’s an instant no for me

[Anonymous]

We'd rather not.

[Peopedotoomuch]

A woman is a walking hole in clothes to most men.