For a lot of guys it's a deterrent, but I would never tell to you just not bother trying. There are guys that won't mind. But, it will be harder for you to find them for sure.
It's not an automatic deal breaker for me personally, however I do give it serious consideration. I don't want to be a father figure to a child that isn't mine, and even if that's not your intent, the child is going to become attached to me over time likely. So there's not only you to consider, but the child as well. Not only that, but just as importantly (maybe more), a child takes up a huge amount of your time and energy and I automatically wonder, what's left for me and the relationship? Are we going to have any private time together? And if we do, are you going to have any energy for anything? I don't mind sharing you of course, but I know the time and energy a child takes from you and that's the HUGE concern for me. So that's why a lot of guys avoid women with children.
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I personally have no problem with a women having a child from a prior relationship; I like kids and I can work around schedules. But I will say that single mothers are often unavailable and have unresolved issues with their baby daddy, which can be a challenge for me to work around. But the kids themselves are never the problem.
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Most men would fuck them. Most men with other options would not date them. Meaning if you are hot and looking for nsa you will do fine. If you want a new relationship prepare to dig through the bottom of the barrel for the leftovers. You probably won't do any better than what you had tbh.
Every heard the term MILF? :)
OK, kidding aside, for me it depends on her story. In other words, how did she end up as a single mom? How did she behave during the divorce? How did she treat her husband during the process, what was he left with, does he get to spend time with his child now? Lots of details like that make a big difference to me because they tell me who she was, which is a pretty good indicator of who she is now and will be in the future.Yes I will date you maybe even marry you. Only if we have our own new kids together. But the original father is the original father I cannot interfere and tell the kid what to do because
I'm not in charge of himI have no issues dating a single mom, Why would I.. Younger guys might, if they aren't fathers.. they have no idea of the commitment one needs to be a parent.
You should probably date guys older than you or somewhat in similar situations. They will be a lot more understanding i think.
Personally I would, nothing wrong with a single mom
Single mums are awesome, if guys have a problem dating a woman who has kids they aren't serious about them imho,,,
No not taking care of another person kid. Also that just means the guy will not be her priority and also she has given birth so that pussy is probably destroyed
For me it's surely YES, but to be honest it depends on her personality, age and being single mom are nothing but personality and woman intelligence for me are the keys.
As someone who wants a family, it depends heavily on:
1. Do you want more kids?
2. Are you a responsible family oriented mother?I date single moms because I'm a single dad and when I can't be with my son I still have the sense of family and those kids need that the most
I only speak for myself. I personally wouldn't date a single mother.
They wonder why you don‘t want to be a double mom, a triple mom or a homerun mom.
this is what happens when you date nd fuck too young, i wouldn't no.
Not a problem if the dad of the child is out of the picture , and no feeling for him are left.
there are guys out there, im not one of them, sorry
Some men like them, others not so much
A consideration, but not a show-stopper.
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