Why do people laugh and call me names on here when I say I wanna be single forever?

[chocolatetwopointo]

why do people think everybody wants the terrible life as they have?

[ohsheeT]

Well I am sorry that you have to go through this and I'm sorry that there are adult people out there that feels the need to call you names and make you feel things that they shouldn't because of whatever it is they feel or whoever it is they are

Just try to remember this this is kind of like a learning experience that no matter what you're doing who you are that there's always going to be somebody that has to make you feel a certain way because that's the way they feel

Just know who you are like you do understand and respect yourself just look at them and shake your head you don't even have to say another word to them let them say what they want and you just believe in what you believe in because that's who you are and that's who you're going to be and that's happy I would hope so this is going to happen all your life probably in different form shapes or ways and remember it's not so much that you feel the way you feel but it's how you handle it it's going to make you a great person by being a great person and not feeding into their bullshit is what's going to make you great

[Zack-Bann]

What do you want to achieve exactly?


Get praised for wanting to be single?


It doesn’t matter to any of us if you are or aren’t


But you defend that position as though we’re all wrong for not wanting to be single forever and for knowing for a FACT that neither will you in like 5 years


But no one is telling you how to live your life. Single or not more power to you

[chocolatetwopointo]

i want to be treated normal?💀 is that seriously too much to ask for? no comments on anything, not anyone telling me what to do or what would make me happier. yeah no ill 100% be single in 5 years im ugly asf so dw ab that lmao. idc ab them i js wonder why its seen as bad. women are bashed for wanting to be single all the time

[Zack-Bann]

It’s the internet no one is treated “normal” don’t feel like you’re a target it’s how it goes for all of us

But if you ask a constructive question instead of a destructive one you’ll see how fast people become positive about the answers

As far as looks go. Im not surprised that you think you’re ugly
But here’s what I learned: we are all as ugly as we allow ourselves to be.
Whatever you think is “wrong” with you, you can chose to fix it
And yes its not easy but also not that hard

[chocolatetwopointo]

many people r treated normally lmao, + im also talking ab irl. kk and ur point is?

[itsannalee]

Just ignore them, but I think because you are still 16, your mind is still developing, not fully mature. And in a lot countries , in your age you can’t even vote yet. That’s why people think you will change your mind someday.

[katiesmuff]

Because if you are really a female and are really 16 you are going to see many changes in the next several years which would likely change your young immature age.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why wouldn't i be a 16 yr old girl? how am i young and immature for wanting to be single? not everybody wants to be js a girlfriend or wife.

[LiamS95]

Did you ever stop to think that perhaps they think what you want is the terrible life. If that's the way they think it makes sense how they react to you pushing your idea and thoughts on to them. Now everyone is entitled to an opinion and a preffered life style but most aren't as verbal about it as you are. Take care and just enjoy life the way you want.

[FreyaRed]

I don't know. It's your business and I can assume from self-observation people change attitude quite often in this topic

[SweetJoyGirl]

I don't know.

Just ignore them. There is nothing wrong with your choice.

[Anonymous]

People are not criticizing you for that. They're criticizing you for being an openly hateful bitch.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how am i?

[Opinion Owner]

You need therapy, and a 50 point boost in your IQ. Good luck with that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

still not an answer, ill wait

[Anonymous]

Things change in life and you will evolve, so how you feel now may not be how you feel in years down the road. Closed or narrow minds do not work well against life.

[ProbablyClueless]

Live your truth, Chocolate. I support you

[chocolatetwopointo]

nice, but do u have an answer?

[ProbablyClueless]

I do. I'd say they make fun of you because they are uncomfortable with being alone with themselves but they see that you aren't uncomfortable.