Are women really not safe to be with anymore for men?

[Anonymous]

Men, what are your thoughts? Does the idea of being with a woman scare the living 💩 out of you because of what women do to men? And let’s say there’s a woman who wants a relationship with a man, should she just give up and keep her distance?

[Zack-Bann]

Who even comes up with these generalizations


People are different


There’s no one size fits all rule to dating


You date the persoN that you’re attracted to and feel comfortable with
Simple


And if we’re talking physical safety, on average men aren’t afraid for their physical safety from women (even though some should be)

[Anonymous]

It's not why men aren't dating. It's probably because most women nowadays are sl**s that have many sex partners before finding a guy to settle for. Also, women don't bring anything besides sex to a relationship. Combine those things with the fact that modern women all think they're a 10 and that they deserve the top 5% guys so everyone else ends up alone.

[Asker]

And because of those women men now believe all women are the same?

[LaurenM1997]

NOT all woman are what you think they are there are really good woman out there

[katiesmuff]

I'm confused what is it that women do to men that is so terrible or scary!

[Asker]

Use men
Marry for only money
Make men raise kids that’s not biologically theirs if a woman cheats and got pregnant by another guy

The list goes on and on

[Unit1]

I'd whisper to you to lay off the red pills for a while.

[Anonymous]

You can't paint ALL women with the same brush. But MOST of the women today are not dating material.

[Asker]

Seems like men have already decided that all women are the same. Even those who are already married are looking at their wives differently.
Right now they’re thinking, “We’ve been married for X amount of years, when will she turn on me?” And a major of those men are dads. Right now they’re also wondering if any of them are biologically theirs.

[Asker]

*a majority

[Opinion Owner]

I understand. But you can't really blame some of them. When you look at the hypergamous nature of so many women today. I mean, these guys are not right. But I see where they get to that conclusion. IMHO the problem is the way men traditionally have always selected women. Women do noymt find most men attractive. Conversely men find about 50 to 60% of women attractive. S women are REALLY picky about who they date. These means men don't choose the women they date. Rather they pick from the women they're relegated to. So the guy knowing his options are limited doesn't want to limit them even more by giving less of those women a chance. Women like to select a guy, then date. Guys are the opposite. We date and then select the woman from who we date.
a lot of this would not happen if guys were more selective about who they dated. But as I said, guys are probably not going to do that. Because that might result in him not dating at all. So expect all of this to continue.
And I'm sorry good women pay the price for the antics of bad women. But don't feel bad. Good men pay the price for the antics of bad men as well.

[Asker]

Honestly, I thought being picky is ok. Because you want to make sure you’re with a good partner. Especially, for women because we get told to pick better. And I thought not finding someone attractive is ok too because you want to be attracted to said person.

[Opinion Owner]

It is. Did you not understand what I was saying. Women have thar luxury. Men really don't. Men don't really get to choose thier partners. I think everyone should be "picky" so to speak. But understand being picky might mean being alone. Most people aren't cool with that. I've said on here a thousand times ad naseum that I'd rather be alone fir the right reasons then with a woman for the wrong ones. Most people today are not OK with being alone.

[Anonymous]

Being with a woman is not scary. Marrying one is.

[Asker]

So should men stay clear of women who want marriage? And what should women who want marriage do at this point?
If anything, my plan was to avoid men altogether and reject anyone that’s interested.

[Opinion Owner]

I would not say men should stay clear of women who want marriage altogether. There are still some good women out there who are deserving of a good man. And likewise, there are good men who are deserving of those women.

What should women who want marriage? Be the kind of good woman who is deserving of a good man. And, if they are able to marry a good man, HONOR THE WEDDING VOWS.

[dudeinohio]

Not all women are evil. The problem is finding one that isn't.