Is it normal for a guy who's not my boyfriend yet to pay for everything?

[Anonymous]

A guy I met on bumble has been taking me on dates almost every week for 3 months. These dates are not cheap and while he has a well-paying job, he's not someone I would consider to be rich and his family is relatively low-middle class. He said he likes me, but we haven't talked about exclusivity yet. So why would someone in this kind of situation still be paying for everything?

[ohsheeT]

Because like he said he likes you

That's very deep and he probably likes you in many many ways he's having fun he's hoping you're having fun he will pay for it that's why he has a job he doesn't care about that you pay I pay b*******
You like your company he wants to be with you and if he has to pay for it to prove that to you then he will

He's not asking for anything in return except for you to be honest with him and that either means don't use him for just going out and doing things
And then break it off
He's committed in a roundabout way to prove to you how much he does like you money's not everything but fun times are
And if you break his heart it'll be a learning experience for him and if you don't then it just might turn out to be a very good thing for you

[Anonymous]

Not for long.

I mean maybe if he has considerable resources. Or if comparatively he has much more than you. Or even if he just really enjoys your company it could be a worthwhile tradeoff to him. But in general a man isn't going to do this for long.

[Gentle269]

Maybe he really likes you and is hoping for something more Permanent

[Pterodon]

He fancies you

[ehatsham_hussain]

Totally normal.

[ehatsham_hussain]

He has a wise personality