If a woman asked her fiance to have a small wedding like a backyard or microwedding, are men okay with that idea?

[Msnsns]

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Do men find it weird or totally would love that?

[ohsheeT]

No men want that especially if they've been married once before they just want something quiet some friends music Good times romantic times lol no guys shouldn't really care about this stuff there you guys going to try to make you happy whatever you want is what you both want is what you should be doing

[Msnsns]

I said small wedding when I said micro I said small. So I'm guessing you meant to say yes. Big weddings seem overrated and expensive and stressful

[ohsheeT]

Yes you took the words right out of my mouth...0

[ohsheeT]

And sometimes depending on how many people there those are the best type

But I think if your dream is to have a bigger wedding than that's what you need to do it only happens once you hope so yes do it the right way you have to do its way that you truly want to do it whatever way that is

[Msnsns]

Yeah I don't know I ask because the biggest weddings always end in divorce for some reason

[ohsheeT]

Now that you mention that you are 100% right I agree

And I was just thinking about something right before I opened up gag and read this. This is probably going to sound crazy but it's true I like to role play and sometimes that ends up into having phone sex we all have an energy within us and an energy touch versus a physical touch sometimes is 10 times deeper than physical and there becomes a bond two people becoming one with energy

[ohsheeT]

And the person that you're doing this with there is a love there that is so deep I mean it is so intense it's just like in real life with physical sense and eventually because there is no physical touch it wears off I think people when they're getting married it's almost that same thing they fall in love there's that high that you get and it just lasts a little bit longer because of the physical touch and you're around each other each day

[ohsheeT]

But if you don't know who the person truly is on the inside if you're just going off that emotion that feeling that high that you get when you first meet somebody then you're more liable to get a divorce whether it's a big wedding or small wedding but I think you're right the bigger the wedding is the faster that they're getting married they want all their friends to be there because they want a big party so I think a lot of things play into it
You can always elope and go to Virginia City Reno Nevada to the silver dollar Queen you should look that up that's a good wedding chapel LOL

[slatyb]

Sounds perfect. I hate rituals. Sign the wedding license, have a party.

[Anonymous]

Big weddings are for women, not men. Most guys would prefer not to spend a fortune on a extravagant wedding.

[Msnsns]

ah ok because i dont see the point of spending a lot on something I can't afford I just never heard the man's perspective on this

[Opinion Owner]

I agree with you 100%, and I think most guys do too. Now, their families may not. That's a different story. But you two should decide what YOU want, and don't let others pressure you into a different direction.

[bowenw]

Small is good for me.

[jahaims]

Men don't share universal opinions