WTF! Of course we don't know all the details that lead the bride to wear the butt-plug on her wedding day. I can't get the thought out of my head -- red flag! Do you really want to marry this guy? Spend the rest of your life with him?
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between equals. Sure, there's give and take. How much is one supposed to put up with to satisfy the cravings of the other? Where do you draw the line? Maybe unwanted sexual acts are ok but _____ isn't? (fill-in the blank)
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Lol. What if she wanted to wear a buttplug because she wanted to be the freaky one to do stuff with him? It’s funny to me what a lot of women assume the guy is the one making outlandish request of women sexually. You know there are a lot of women that are downright freaks in the bedroom. They are gems, few and very far between. So this man whoever he is, is super lucky to have that women. So to answer your question. No one is required to do anything. But if you want to start off on the right foot, she should learn to “tolerate” (if that’s the word you want to use), his fantasy.. after all, he didn’t get married to her just so they can talk and cuddle the rest of there lives.. shit, he could have done that without getting married
no one is really obligated to do anything for each other. after all, the wedding day is a big day for both of them, so they both should be able to agree on something that they're both happy with.
Just because you are married, does not mean You have to every sex thing they want. You can always ask if he will do the same for you
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I just assumed they'd talked about it beforehand and agreed on some loose plan or idea. That sounds risky, to never even talk about it and then you marry the person and just spring everything on them in the hotel after. From either side, that sounds a little too blindly optimistic.
Well the wedding itself is always all about the bride, so there's that lol. The wedding night, she should have some as well. 50/50. It would feel good as a guy, but I'd also like to do that for her personally. And also you should both know each other pretty well by this point (even sexually in my opinion), so nothing should be a "surprise" or anything either.
No she should not... However if the husband is really into something and she is not, he chose the wrong woman.
Why wouldn't all scenarios be on the table, isn't that what she signed up for? Like it's 2022, anal sex is a pretty normal thing to want nowadays. Why would she marry some guy if she isn't comfortable with the idea of anal sex with him? Where's the compromise ladies? Lol this why guys don't be wanting to get married 😂
Lets face it, she has the ring and the piece of paper she does not have to put out anymore if she doesn't want to.
That's pretty rape-y. But if you're not already on the same page when it comes to what you're comfortable doing sexually by your wedding night, what are you doing getting married?
Marriage is about equality, sharing and willingly putting someone else first without losing your self-respect. For both man & woman. Otherwise, why bother to marry?
Yes, because you can’t get pregnant from doing it my way.
Literally too exhausted after the big day, you’ll probably just go to sleep when u get back to room.
Wait, didn't the groom just engage in everything the bridge wanted and expected of him on their wedding day?
All I'm hearing is the woman has no problem taking and taking and talking, but when it's finally time to give something in return now its "no one is ever obligated to do something they don't want to do!"Each partner should respect the other and not force them to do anything they find uncomfortable
Yes but so should he!
Required? No. But, I would hope she wouldn't feel like she was REQUIRED to do something she just MARRIED
The groom should be able to get her so aroused she wants to
You don't automatically become a sex slave just because you got married.
They should be joint decisions, both husband and wife agreeing to everything they do
No, absolutely not.
Its her wedding night too
Lol what
Just get FUCKED
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