Should a bride be required to engage in whatever form of romance her new husband requests on their wedding night?

[supercutebutt]

He wants wedding night buttstuff. She doesn't. Is it a bride's responsibility to succumb to her husband's desires? VOTE!

How do you feel about wedding night romance? Should all scenarios be on the table and all requests tolerated by the new bride? For example, I know of a bride-to-be who said that she plans on wearing a buttplug throughout her wedding ceremony and reception so that she will be ready to make the night extra special for her husband. It made me wonder if her man made it very clear that this is what he expected of her. How do you feel about this sort of thing? Is it the brides responsibility to satisfy her groom's romantic appetites, no matter how extreme, on their wedding night? VOTE below!

No. I feel the bride should be able to veto unusual requests from her new husband on their wedding night.

Yes. It is the bride's duty to satisfy her new husband's cravings on the night of their wedding.

[SamIam96]

WTF! Of course we don't know all the details that lead the bride to wear the butt-plug on her wedding day. I can't get the thought out of my head -- red flag! Do you really want to marry this guy? Spend the rest of your life with him?

Marriage is supposed to be a partnership between equals. Sure, there's give and take. How much is one supposed to put up with to satisfy the cravings of the other? Where do you draw the line? Maybe unwanted sexual acts are ok but _____ isn't? (fill-in the blank)

[supercutebutt]

[motownplayer2000]

Lol. What if she wanted to wear a buttplug because she wanted to be the freaky one to do stuff with him? It’s funny to me what a lot of women assume the guy is the one making outlandish request of women sexually. You know there are a lot of women that are downright freaks in the bedroom. They are gems, few and very far between. So this man whoever he is, is super lucky to have that women. So to answer your question. No one is required to do anything. But if you want to start off on the right foot, she should learn to “tolerate” (if that’s the word you want to use), his fantasy.. after all, he didn’t get married to her just so they can talk and cuddle the rest of there lives.. shit, he could have done that without getting married

[supercutebutt]

So did u vote A or B?

[motownplayer2000]

Neither I didn’t vote because both have merit… once your married you are obligated to fulfill each other’s wants and needs.. however, you aren’t required to do it if you don’t want too.. but it will cause conflict and friction. All depends on what each party is willing to compromise on

[motownplayer2000]

In negotiations

[lrina]

no one is really obligated to do anything for each other. after all, the wedding day is a big day for both of them, so they both should be able to agree on something that they're both happy with.

[supercutebutt]

Some men really crave buttstuff, though.

[zeitgeist057]

@supercutebutt they should have to try it first, so they know what they are asking. Kind of like how police officers have to get tased before they can carry a taser.

[RebeccaBI2000]

Just because you are married, does not mean You have to every sex thing they want. You can always ask if he will do the same for you

[IceCreamSandwich]

I just assumed they'd talked about it beforehand and agreed on some loose plan or idea. That sounds risky, to never even talk about it and then you marry the person and just spring everything on them in the hotel after. From either side, that sounds a little too blindly optimistic.

[Anonymous]

Well the wedding itself is always all about the bride, so there's that lol. The wedding night, she should have some as well. 50/50. It would feel good as a guy, but I'd also like to do that for her personally. And also you should both know each other pretty well by this point (even sexually in my opinion), so nothing should be a "surprise" or anything either.

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't all scenarios be on the table, isn't that what she signed up for? Like it's 2022, anal sex is a pretty normal thing to want nowadays. Why would she marry some guy if she isn't comfortable with the idea of anal sex with him? Where's the compromise ladies? Lol this why guys don't be wanting to get married 😂

[supercutebutt]

Did you vote B?

[Opinion Owner]

Fraid so

[exitseven]

Lets face it, she has the ring and the piece of paper she does not have to put out anymore if she doesn't want to.

[MikeTheBartender]

No she should not... However if the husband is really into something and she is not, he chose the wrong woman.

[matchrestore]

That's pretty rape-y. But if you're not already on the same page when it comes to what you're comfortable doing sexually by your wedding night, what are you doing getting married?

[Guardian45]

Marriage is about equality, sharing and willingly putting someone else first without losing your self-respect. For both man & woman. Otherwise, why bother to marry?

[Guardian45]

@supercutebutt. Regarding 'Some men really crave buttstuff', that's because it's you!

[Nmdr3]

Literally too exhausted after the big day, you’ll probably just go to sleep when u get back to room.

[OddBeMe]

Yes, because you can’t get pregnant from doing it my way.

[CountryWanderer]

Each partner should respect the other and not force them to do anything they find uncomfortable

[Anonymous]

Wait, didn't the groom just engage in everything the bridge wanted and expected of him on their wedding day?
All I'm hearing is the woman has no problem taking and taking and talking, but when it's finally time to give something in return now its "no one is ever obligated to do something they don't want to do!"

[supercutebutt]

This is a poll. Did you vote for option 'B'?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course. Again, didn't the man just engage and give everything required of him as requested by the woman when he probably would rather not? But then when the tables are turned and the man asked for anything outside the woman's comfort zone all you hear is "never do anything you don't want to do!"

Why the hypocrisy?

[supercutebutt]

Yeah well what hypocrisy are you talking about? where did I type "never do anything you don't want to do!"? I am just floating the question because I heard about a future bride who plans on installing a buttplug prior to partaking in all of the festivities on her wedding day. It's just unusual so it inspired this poll question. I gave two clear voting options, not one. So mellow out.

[Opinion Owner]

I just explained the hypocrisy twice. And I never said you said "never do anything you don't want to do", but if you scroll down and look at the comments by other women you can find it written there

[supercutebutt]

You are making assumptions. You have no idea if the groom did "everything the bride wanted and expected." How could you possibly know this? "All I'm hearing is the woman has no problem taking and taking and talking" Absolutely nowhere in the words that I typed did I imply what you are assuming.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok you just lack reading comprehension. I said this is what a lot of women say. Just put me on ignore if you can't read

[supercutebutt]

Nope. You are posting weird assumptions based on your confirmation bias issues. Not my fault. 100% yours. :)

[Paige90]

Yes but so should he!

[SignedAutographs]

Required? No. But, I would hope she wouldn't feel like she was REQUIRED to do something she just MARRIED

[hafinjun]

The groom should be able to get her so aroused she wants to

[msc545]

You don't automatically become a sex slave just because you got married.

[Jerre]

They should be joint decisions, both husband and wife agreeing to everything they do

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[supercutebutt]

[Xtendable]

Its her wedding night too

[EaterPeter]

Nope

[flirtatiousgirl]

Lol what

[supercutebutt]

Marital buttsex on the wedding night. :)

[TX651]

Just get FUCKED

[supercutebutt]

In the butt though?

[TX651]

Not necessarily on the 1st night. But be ready cause it will come.

[hafinjun]

Absolutely,