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My LDR boyfriend wants to start regularly going to bars. I have some concerns can I please get a male perspective?

My (27F) LDR boyfriend (32M) I have been dating since August. He said he wanted to save up money so we can meet. However he hasn’t been working at all and instead of getting a job he decides to play video games and just started going to bars. I got nothing from him for Christmas either. He told me he thought bars were for single people and doesn’t go to them , then shortly after it’s something he regularly wants to do. He even mentioned going to help his friend get women which made me more uncomfortable. He has mentioned how he gets flirty when drunk before as well. And he has said and done a few things that give me a reason to feel uneasy as is. I am in a fight or flight mode currently whether to end things. I was happy to have a mature loyal man in his 30’s. I rather leave than control someone. Part of me is saying get over it, the other is justifying leaving. I would like your advice so I either get character development, or support to leave

My LDR boyfriend wants to start regularly going to bars. I have some concerns can I please get a male perspective?
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