Why do I always hit him (to have fun)?

[Anonymous]

I end up always hitting my crush (not in a bad way, it’s gentle)…on the arm or shoulder when we are talking and having fun. Very often.

I never did that with previous people. How could we explain that?

🤔

[Summeroflove]

You like him and want to touch him. Just…. Ask him out a simple coffee date. Don’t wait too long and see if he moves on.

I understand that rejection is scary but if you’re rejected you will have closure for one thing and for two you won’t be wasting your time on someone who doesn’t like you that way. If he respects you as a person he won’t be a ass about it.

[Asker]

Hello! Interesting you’re probably right !
There’s a big sexual tension between us. Its probably my desire to touch him…

We already had some « dates » :)

[Summeroflove]

Then I would say tell him how you feel and look for more then sexual tension. If that’s all you have going for you then the relationship will probably never last

[jahaims]

It's because you don't want to or know how to express emotions properly

[Asker]

Interesting :)

[HusamRocks]

U r on the track 👣 👍🏻

[Asker]

😄😄😅

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds abusive. How old is he?

[Asker]

We are both in our 30s 😄