He thinks I only hit him up when im bored?

[Anonymous]

I called the guy I’ve been seeing last night just to talk to catch up and a few minutes into the phone call he said “what made you call me tonight are You are bored “ i said “I’m not bored just wanted to talk to you and hear your voice” and he said “yeah right why are you up this late“

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's cause a lot of the times women do this, if it's done to a guy enough times they pick it up and remain aware of it with the next person they talk too, I would imagine you didn't talk to him for a while and hit him up randomly at night most likely

[Asker]

He didn’t text back so i waited a few days and hit him up

[ChicoFromThe305]

How many times have you done this random messaging days after the conversation ended? Cause it seems like the conversation ends and you contact him again when you are bored and have nothing to do, it pretty easy to assume that, I've had this happen before and I will say there's nothing more annoying then having that happen to you and then you choose to move on and a few days later the person hits you back up after you were already starting to forget the person, I would imagine that's why he just blurred that out

[Asker]

No i text him he doesn’t reply so I’ll wait a few days to see if he will respond and if he doesn’t I’ll start another conversation

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then maybe he just isn't interested

[MaxW1]

Well, it's a case of low self esteem or not wanting to think you'd like talking to him, perhaps cause it is unusual and hence the skepticism

[DishLady]

He has a point. If it's not someone you speak to regularly it's important to think about why you're talking to them out of the blue. What do you want from this guy? Seems like he had the situation pegged whether you're conscious of it or not.

[Asker]

I always talk to him

[DishLady]

He doesn’t seem to think so.

Try keeping a journal of the times you call him. What time, what days and how long. It might help clarify why he feels you only call when you’re bored, etc.

[Asker]

He rarely replied to me so my times are inconsistent

[DishLady]

It's ok. Try it anyway. He possibly doesn't reply bc he feels dejected... that you aren't sincere in your interest.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Anonymous]

He is not that into you and is trying to get rid of you.

[Asker]

Ok gotcha

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?