Why won’t he let me go?

[Anonymous]

My friends with benefits got a girlfriend a month ago and didn’t tell me until now. He’s only known her for two months. We’ve been sleeping together for up to a year. He said his girlfriend wants him to end things with me but he doesn’t. The only reason she knows I exist is because she has access to his phone and she told him to block and get rid of me. He hasn’t and has shown he’s not going to.

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Because he is an 8

And you are a 4, she is a 5.

Women are only attracted to perceived 7s and higher.

You are both willing to do more for him than he is for you.

He is not a scumbag, he is making the most of his position, or All women are scum for actively ignoring 80% of the male population.

You have a choice, be in a hiereme with the king where your 1 of 10 girls, with somone who is very attractive and validates your insecurities and power complex of "if I can sleep with him and get his attention, I must be that attractive also"

Or grow up and realise your actual value, which has been in active decay since you were 18 and for every man you have been with, worse the higher up he has been in comparison to yourself.

Unless they are actively perusing you and offering commitment, you are lower value than them.

You need to find the guy your swooning over, but worried he his showing signs of men who are less valuable than yourslef, ie effort. This is on your level.

But by the sounds of it, you have racked up plenty of "experience" so the gap between where you see yourslef, and where you actually are in the eyes of the men your are trying to date, is going to be quite large.

[Zack-Bann]

His girlfriend is a patient broad if she’s still waiting on him 2 months later and he’s still stepping out.


But you: absolutely no self respect, sorry to say.


It’s one thing to be friends with benefits and non committal when both of you are single and don’t want the complications that come with dating.


But he’s dating. So he does want the complications
Which means you are a literal object to him.
Because he wants to date just not you.
But he does enjoy occasionally fucking you for the sport.
And it costs him nothing. So what the hell

[Asker]

He’s not stepping out if he is it’s not with me. We haven’t had sex since he said he had a girlfriend but he just keeps talking about it. He wants to do it behind her back but I want no parts of it.

[Zack-Bann]

You said his girlfriend asked him to end it with you.
If she thinks there’s something to end then she’s assuming he’s still doing it with you.

The bottom line remains.
He needs to go

[ohsheeT]

Well now what you need to do is don't accept any of his calls kind of stay away be a little bit distance from him that way he's going to have to make a choice he wants his cake and eat it too well if you're the cake make him pay for it he'll be back.

[Summeroflove]

Well he doenst have a choice if you stop cheating with him scumbag

[Purpleronnie]

Why won’t he let you go? , maybe a better question is why are you letting yourself be used in this way?

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Because he wants to keep you for having sex with him. Nothing more.

[Staximus]

Have some self-respect and tell that shit bag to go piss up a flagpole

[teamvic]

Whats better than one girl to fuck?

✌️

[Anonymous]

You are his cum dumpster.

[Anonymous]

Your his sex toy nothing else.